Search Results: we broke up, he's asking questions

I have been talking to him for almost a month. We have a couple things in common. He is a few years older than me. He has sent some gym selfies. We were talking about shows and we had a show in common and he asked "This will determine our future relationship who is your favourite character" (something like that) Anyways we have been talking, he asks me questions and I asked him questions to get to know each other. He recently broke up with his ex but it wasn't a bad break up, she just moved far away for school. I was asking him what he was looking for on the site we met on. He said a few dates and maybe a kiss but nothing concrete. He said whatever happens happens. He takes awhile to respond but explains what he was doing.


He tells about his day. There was this big sports game on and he sent me pics of him in his favourite team uniform. Anyways I was explaining to him that I had an operation done and had to wait for the doctors to give the okay etc. When I was asking him what we would do on the date he said it depends on the weather if its spring, summer, winter on when we meet up. (good sign right? that he is willing to wait?) He has been busy with work and explained that too me. I asked him what he looks for in a girl\expects on the first date. He said someone who is nice and honest. I said the same thing because I was looking for that as well. He said we will get along just fine. He was saying that he was at a family event and tells me how close he is to them etc.( I didn't ask him about it he randomly told me) He said he's glad I'm recovering well and that what the doctor said is better than what it was before.

So me and this guy have recently been talking again, we talked a year and a bit ago and lets just say we argued a lot and a lot of things happened lol, we had stuff in common and he was career oriented. He recently broke up with his ex when we first started talking and he said he was looking for anything at the time. We talked for 5 months and then we didn't talk for awhile and he blocked me on all social media. Then one time I saw him on another dating site and messaged him basically saying I missed him. Then he messaged me on social media saying he got my messaged. We talked for a bit and last thing he said my questions were stupid..

Then I decided to message him a day ago saying I was going to his city he recently moved to for work. I asked if he wanted to meet. He said sure and what I would want to do.. then I avoided him. He started asking me random questions why I messaged him and whats new with me.. (he was bored at work I think) So I said I can't go to the city, plans fell through. Then we got back to our old conversation. (almost argued again about something else) Then I said if your're the guy you said you are then lets meet and I'll give you another chance and prove to me. He said he isn't going to meet to prove anything. I said I want to meet you.. anyways He told me he knows what he wants to do in life etc and wants to find the girl. he's not someone who wants to hook up. He is finding a girl to fall in love with and wants to get married at a certain age.. He also said he's the guy that goes with the flow. If they end up in bed if nothing then ok. I also mentioned that I tried to give him a chance before and at the time he broke up with his ex. He said people need time. During our convo he said get your butt too ___ and see me. there's more too it but thats the just of it. he works a lot and doesn't come to this city where he is originally from often. (where I am as well) He isn't having much luck on dating sites. I really liked this guy as well.