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Because I am the luckiest girl in the world I woke up with a lovely little lump on my lip yesterday morning. Which scared the sh*t out of me! I had never experienced anything like it so when I first felt it, I jumped out of bed ran to the mirror (couldn't really see it that well) and then comparatively ran my fingers around my lips to get a good feel for it and see if there were anymore (there were not). I then hoped on our lovely friend google and searched around for a cause. At first I thought it was a cold sore (only thing that seemed to fit) so I panicked because I had done the one thing you aren't supposed to do and touched all of the rest of my lip after wards (what can I say I've never had one before how was I to know?). After reading about them for a while though (and freaking out all over the place as I read) I realized besides the precence of a lump... Nothing else seemed to match... So I went back to my original search and looked some more and realized that I actually had burned my lip yesterday when I spilled to much hot sauce on my burrito and ate it anyway cause that's how I roll lol. After waking up this morning to find it only went down slightly, but hasn't spread at all, I'm fairly confident it was a burn not a cold sore. OK so now the thing is I have a date tonight. I don't think it is worth calling it quits over something so minor (you can barely see it). I understand completely though if he doesn't want me to kiss him just in case, but how should I approach the subject? I don't want to freak him out lol

I had a first date last Friday night (it's now Thursday here in Australia).



I had spoken to this guy online for a month. We exchanged numbers after a week and a half of emails. We spoke every second day with texting in between - then spoke nearly every day on the phone.



He asked me on a date and then sent roses to my work with some perfume I mentioned I liked. I had to cancel the date because I forgot I had my fathers birthday - so I gave him 3 days notice. He still seemed to pull back a bit even after I explained.

I tried to make up for it. But he wasn't calling and texting as much as was a little stand-off-ish.

We finally met on Friday and he apologized for pulling away. I told him not to worry about it. He was a bit tipsy when I arrived and just 'happy'. We talked a lot and then we kissed after about 2 hours. I excused myself as I felt a bit tipsy and went home.



He called me when I got home (about 10:45pm), and wanted to hang out more. I should have said no but I really wanted to just be with him. He came over and unfortunately (or fortunately), we slept together.

It was way too soon. I thought I wouldn't hear from him at all - but I did. He blames himself for the night being like that, and excused himself for being drunk. Having said that, it's now Thursday and while I got a call on Tuesday, and an offer to see him on Wednesday (to watch a football match with him and his friends), he still feels 'different'. He doesn't text me first thing in the morning, or call every second day at lunch...but yet he assured me he still wants another date...I'm just wondering why he hasn't set it up yet?

So if a guy goes from about 10 texts a day to 5, and one call every two days to one call every three days...is he not interested anymore? Despite saying that he is? He also said he felt bad and asked if he 'f*cked things up'? I told him no. But also I did feel vulnerable and pulled back a bit too.

Guys, I like him still. how do I play this? Also I've pulled back on texts and I don't call. I'm giving him space - cause it seems like he wants it or something?