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I'll add a poll cause I can.

OK so essentially a old "friend" if you want to call her that, who's quite attractive, and I've known for years, has never shown me any attention really except when she needs help in some way. Now I realized this a long time ago, and one time when she asked for help, I said no pretty much. But then a couple years later she needs help again. I figure, why not. So I take her from one place to another essentially. I tell her we need to hangout some, we did once, which was horrible. And it was then I realized I need to get rid of this person.

Well a few days later she asks for help, apparently she got her car impounded, and she didn't have the money to get it out. She needed money to get it out, 300.00, and she split it up by two days in 150.00 amounts. She swore she'd pay me back in two days after she got the car out as she had her card in there or some bullsh*t. I generally thought she needed help, and I just got played hard.

I still have some bits of proof linking her, namely the receipts where I sent the money to her. But I have no proof of her saying she would pay me back anymore.. -_- because I cleared all my text messages out last week in fact. Why not screw myself more.

I know where her dad lives. I was thinking I could attempt to see if he can help me get ahold of her. I'm not sure how well that will work, if at all. As he doesn't know me, we never met. Was going to, according to her, but then all that happened. I should note that this is possibly the only way to get a hold of her, as my spamming her twitter and Facebook with when are you paying me back, has resulted only in her blocking me on both and I never really got any answers.

I could just accept and learn from my HUGE mistake. And move on, focusing on the future. Writing it off as, it took 300.00 dollars to get rid of that as nicely as I can put it, person. Scumbag-Julie so to speak. If anyone has seen the memes. It just blows it's 300.00 and not something less noticeable like 50.00 or even 100.00 would have been OK. I buy video games all the time, so yeah.

I'm going to post this as anon now I think about it, as I don't want anyone to know that doesn't need to know. Because.. I'm retarded.

So should I:

there's two big theories; that it will end in a big crunch, and that it will end by separating so far apart that even atoms are split.

in the words of Stephen Hawking: "fire or ice"

i really like the theory of the universe ending in one gigantic super massive black hole. mostly because me and my homie came up with that theory before even learning about it, so when I heard real physicist thought of it too, I felt smart lol

also cause it makes more sense to me.

but I also think that maybe only part of the universe will end in a black hole while whatever is at the very edge, might just be too far to be sucked in and just keep spreading out.

but I'm no physicist, I just really like learning about all this stuff.

what do you think?