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My boyfriend is really really into me... and we really like each other and we're good people, but I am beginning to wonder if we are just too different.

He does not drink, at all. I like to go out and have fun, but I'm not a partier. I my future I'd like to go out to a nice little restaurant and wear a cocktail dress and drink a glass of wine with my husband. He will not drink AT ALL.

That and he does not like fancy anything. He doesn't like fancy restaurants or dressing up. He dislikes the idea of having a lot of money.

He's super smart and is going to have a good job, but doesn't want to make a lot of money. He also wants me to be a stay at home mom.. and I can't really imagine anything sadder for my future right now. We are both smart people (he's getting his PhD and I might get mine) and I just can't see myself sitting around at home with kids. I hate the idea of cooking for other people.

He's super nice though, he said that he can cook and I can clean dishes (which I love to do). Idk, he's so willing to compromise. He really loves me, but I just don't know if I can get passed myself.

What do I do? I grew up pretty much italian where we wine and dine our hearts out as a family.. my family doesn't know that he doesn't drink and I'm sure they'll have a lot of red flags...

Also, it's not that I'm not attracted to him... I just don't find him to be super super attractive.

Nonetheless, he has an amazing personality and I think he really loves me. I just have some apprehensions. He's been talking about marriage lately.. and about how he wants to raise his kids and he thinks I'd be a great mom and blah blah. That makes me so nervous! What do I do? I don't want to break it off with him, but I'm worried that our differences might be enough to make me feel like I can't fully love him as much as he deserves... and deserves the best.