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I’ve been with my boyfriend “Adam” for two years. I honestly ignored lots of red flags... He’s on dating apps (ie, badoo, tinder, etc), he has also sexually abused me, but all you need to know is that he doesn’t treat me well at all...
Within the 1 year mark, I met an online friend “James” in real life and have hung out with him several times. Ever since we met he’s been wanting a relationship with me. Looking back he has treated me probably better than any other guy and he and I do believe he loved me. Long story short, James got a new girlfriend roughly 2 weeks ago. I got into a huge fight with him which resulted in him blocking me on Snapchat and me blocking him on FB. I broke up with Adam on June 6, and on June 7 James broke up with his girlfriend because she’s falsely accusing him of hitting/attacking her and she’s trying to bring the police and court system involved. She also kicked James out of her car and stranded him for over 10 miles. Despite being together for 2 weeks, it looks like they broke up 4 times and she seems unstable as she has two kids and falsely accused her ex-husband/baby daddy of abusing her. Yesterday she wrote a long post about James basically calling herself out saying that she did indeed make up those false abuse accusations, and James commented saying that she is forgiven and that he's trying to move on. I want to reach out to James and apologize/tell my feelings/ be in relationship. Advice?

My boyfriends ex was best friends with his mother. She treated him like a mother as well. Lecturing, controlling, yelling, etc. They went on vacations together and were texted all the time. My boyfriend dumped her (for obvious reasons) and we have been together for 2 years. His mother doesn't think I talk enough and doesn't make any effort to talk to me or involve me. She still posts about his ex and how much he loves her and keeps pictures of them. My boyfriend and his mom are very close and are like best friends so I care about her opinion. But my feelings are hurt with this.

I've always had to deal with social anxiety, and when my best friend of 8 years asked me out I said yes, but then my anxiety spiked up so badly because of the expectations that I thought he had of me (He didn't he was the same as always) that I broke up with him.
After a couple of months without talking, we started talking again and decided to get back together, but the same happened and we both agreed to break up.
His friends (that were also my friends at the start of this) were fed up with the situation and took his side and stopped talking to me, at first I thought that they simply were better friends with him, but latter on when he and I started talking again he said that those friends would kill him if they knew we were talking, so we started dating again in secret (I was better because I graduated and moved out of my parents house) and we lasted longer than we usually did, but then his friends found out about us, and a week later he broke up with me over text (I have to say that one of those friends told him "you should have fucked her and left").
We never talked again, but now I miss him, and he didn't really did anything bad to me, he was really sweet and all that, but his friends were idiots who brainwashed him, I know that they have some points, because we broke up because of me two times before, but we were okay so I don't know
What should I do?

This was over a year ago