Search Results: ex girlfriend want me to date

Guys, why are you afraid that the girl you date might turn into your lunatic/ obsessive ex if you say out loud you are in a relationship?

He thinks things are going great between us, we get along very well. He said we are a couple to him since we are exclusive, spend a lot of time together, left for a romantic weekend at his suggestion (he said he wouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do I break the news?

I’ll start off by saying I would really appreciate advice from those older than 30. I dated my ex for 6 years, our relationship ended when he cheated, only then I was able to take a good hard look at the past 6 years...

TacocaT6969

Yoda Age: 32

Relationships

My ex came back for the 4th time... Should I listen to what he has to say again?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex broke up with me on 06/18/17, 3 weeks after we had taken a vacation to Punta Cana to celebrate our 2 yr anniversary. That summer I was a mess and beg him to stayed together but

My ex broke up with me on 06/18/17, 3 weeks after we had taken a vacation to Punta Cana to celebrate our 2 yr anniversary. That summer I was a mess and beg him to stayed together but by mid Aug, I was done and cut connections with him. Little after I hear he is dating another girl and that he isn't doing well. Around Nov, he wants to be friends and starts texting me and talking to me and than completely cuts me off when I confront him about his girlfriend who he kept denying he had. This obviously hurt me I tried to get in contact but I realized he had change his number. Fast forward to 05/21/18 (2 days after what would've been our 3rd year). He calls me on the morning tells me that he wants to talk and be friends. So I decided to meet with him and hear him out to see where things are going. Once again I get wrapped up in his words, he tells me that he broke up with the girl he was dating than because she didn't understand him and that he was still in love with me and that he wanted to see where things could go. Obviously me still very much in love with him gives him a chance but I didn't want to make anything official since I wasn't sure how things were really going because he was leaving to Greece in June and wasn't going to get back until Aug. Well what I expected happened, things were great until a week within in his trip where he just stopped replying to my messages and told me that he didn't want to be in contact anymore. So once again he just completely took me out of his life. I needed him to sign my dogs adoption papers because I was traveling abroad and taking my dog with me, so I contacted him when he got back from Greece (he bought me a dog). After that we saw each other a couple of times and hooked up, I told him I couldn't keep doing this because I wanted to date him. He said that's not what he wanted and completely ignore me, all he said is that he was in contact with his ex. Yesterday he calls me after 2 months, to say sorry & that he can't cut me off.

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Ex girlfriend tries to get in contact with bf?

So this isn’t really a quesiton but something just to say my bfs ex keeps trying to reach him. They dated less than four months and met on a dating site. She broke up with him. And now almost two years later she’s still...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My best friend broke my heart. What do we do now?

I've known him for 4 years. Our families are friends, and he lives 4 hours away. I liked him from the start. Until I got a boyfriend, and cut my best friend off. I refused to admit these feelings at this time, but stopped...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

How to get over this break up with a friend with benefits?

I never had a boyfriend before and I'm craving to be loved by a guy. So, I accepted a guy that wanted to be a friend with benefits and gave my V-card to him. Eventually I fell in love with him because he treated me as if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend cheated on me, I feel so hurt, what do I do?

So my boyfriend and I were together for a year and so I’m on vacation out of the country and so he decides to put on his Snapchat “I probably have the best girlfriend ever” and I thought, “awww😍❤️“. Then I was about to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

How do you get over your first love?

I had a crush on my best friend since our senior year of high school. I wanted to tell him but I lost my nerve. He ended up getting a girlfriend so that was the end of that. It’s been almost 2 years and we’re closer...

RoiseLee

Xper 4 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Childhood, high school sweetheart still texts me even tough we broke up? Does that mean he truly loves me or is just manipulating me?

I’m 17 now and he is. I’ve known my ex boyfriend for 5 years and we both met in 6th grade. We lost contact after he left to another middle school and he ended up contacting me again after we saw each other at a comicon....

Swanknight321

Xper 4 Age: 25

Break Up & Divorce

How to get over her?

Dated a girl for 2 years. We talked everyday and I always gave her space to do what she wished. But she left me cause I have been feeling too insecure and clingy recently. I bought up some insecurities of some guys (not...

fanny600

Xper 2 Age: 27

Break Up & Divorce

Should I text my ex?

My girlfriend of a year and a half and I broke up 8 months ago and haven't really spoken in maybe 4 months. I think I have moved on because I've been out living my life and having fun/staying busy. I've made a lot of new...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

His ex girlfriend, should I be worried?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months. Him and his high school sweetheart were together for 4 years on and off and then he moved. She had cheated on him and broken up with him numerous times during...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How Do I Respond?

Back story: I was best friends with my ex for 2 years. We dated for 2 months, then had this friends with benefits relationship for another 2 months. I started a stupid argument about something that was already resolved...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

He doesn’t want to be my boyfriend?

I’ve been up and down with a guy for more than 1 year. We’ve never been in relationship because he doesn’t want to. He said he’s not in a good position for relationship now (he’s master student and he thinks he may move...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Should I ask my friends with benefits if she wants to get more serious? Just scared of getting screwed again?

I travel back and forth between two states for work. While I'm in one state I occasionally meet up, date and sleep with a girl I met out there 3 months ago. I was honest about keeping it friends with benefits only in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is it a good idea to keep your best friend of the opposite sex away from your gf/bf early on?

Lightning8

Xper 7 Age: 31

So, I'm trying to figure out what happened But based on this experience I do know a lot more about what I want, don't want and what not to put up with My ex met my mom, sister and

So, I'm trying to figure out what happened

But based on this experience I do know a lot more about what I want, don't want and what not to put up with

My ex met my mom, sister and neice, but she didn't bother letting me see her family or even male best friend whose name she mentioned a lot on our dates, even when nudged or asked. She is a gym rat and so is he, they're coworkers at the same college fitness center. They knew each other for 4-5 months prior to our relationship so I know she has much longer friendships. She would tell me about his athletic feats and his "amazing but gross muscles", unsolicited. This specifically was on a date just before meeting my family. I thought I would playfully express honest emotions of jealousy or discomfort to such a topic at that time by saying, "hey I can do that too." But she kind of threw it back in my face as me being a turn off and insecure. She said "You're not the only guy in the world", which registered to me as a red flag, but I didn't want to believe it and took her to meet my family anyway. [Additional question: Was she right? I have read that expressing jealousy is unattractive when your girlfriend reveals her male best friend. But at the same time, when our relationship started, she explicity told me that she had no best friend, but she wished she had one.]

Anyway strangely enough, she has him move into her house with her because his visa ran out. He has a girlfriend and she told me she'd never cheat but I'd still never met him and she doesn't offer. I ask to help move and she says he doesn't have much to move. The school semester starts and she says she'll be busy. I try to give her space. I text something almost every day and call maybe 2 times a week as she ghosts me for three weeks with him in the house. Of those calls, the first one was returned after the first week. But after the third week she dumped me on snapchat, and refused to answer the phone when I called that day. She said the word love creeped her out

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Break Up & Divorce

Can she do this?

I brokeup with my ex girlfriend now she wants to press charges on me for all the times I've assaulted her but she dont remember the dates they were months ago What would cops think of her what will happen

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I confess my feelings to my ex?

We dated for a year back in high school and we started talking again later this year. He already has a girlfriend but I'm starting to fall for him again. We hang out, talk and just like old times, we still have the...

pinkpearl96

Xper 2 Age: 30

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Have you ever rejected a man because his family and friends were too noisy?

My ex is 20 years old and his family and friends want him to date his on and off girlfriend he's dated since he was 14. My ex even wanted to move in with her.. I was like hell no to the no no no... I liked him and all....

EllieGoulding

Xper 2 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Should I just ask my boyfriend why he is still friends with his recent Ex girlfriend on Snapchat?

They’ve been separated since January. They dated for 6 months before that. I trust him that he doesn’t want to be with her, she cheated on him and he ended it right away. But she still obsesses over him, tweets about him,...

Anonymous

(30-35)