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This guy I used to know in highschool 6 years ago and I started talking recently. We've been seeing eachother, well we have hungout six times now, within two weeks. He isn't much of a texter, but he would usually text me everyday asking how my day has been, and he has always initiated plans with me. When we're in person everything seems to go so well... But it's been two days now where he hasn't texted me at all. The last time I saw him he stayed over at my place.. The other night I asked him to come over and watch this show we both watch , he said he would see what he was doing, and he eventually flaked out and said he was too tired.. Which I get considering he works 12 hour days and he worked the next morning. I texted him tonight asking how his day was and he responded right away. I feel like I may be overreacting that he hasn't texted me first in a few days? I get he is a really busy guy and I'm surprised he even makes as much time for me as he does! Do you think he's slowly pulling away by not texting? Or am I overreacting?

Okay so I have been seeing this guy since late July. Things are moving slowly, which is fine.

He seems interested, well up until recently. He has said in the past (like a couple months ago) that he hopes I will be his gf someday. I responded saying I would like that a lot :) But he never really said anything more to that effect.

He says that seeing me is the best part of his week and that he looks forward to our weekend time together.

He usually replies to my messages, however sometimes he loses his phone or falls asleep (I get it, it happens).

But most recently he has flaked out on me a lot. I get it, people are busy. But I asked him 3 separate times and he never confirmed when we would see each other.

I asked him on Thursday if he was free on the weekend, he said yes. I asked if Saturday worked, he never responded. Then on Friday I asked again if Saturday was okay, no response.

Then I contacted him again on Saturday (by text), he said sorry I lost my phone. But then I asked if we could see each other that night, no response...

Then today I sent him another text, seeing how he was doing (he's renovating his house). He said good, and we kind of talked back and forth. Then I asked him what he was doing today. And no response...

So I'm now wondering if he is just simply not interested. I can certainly understand if he is busy. I get it. But can he not let me know what is going on?

Anyway, I talked to my friend and she suggested that I ask him straight up. Although I'm not too keen on having that conversation over texts.

I'd rather talk to him in person. So how should I approach this with him?

Thanks so much for your help!!