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Search Results: is it love or infatuation
How do you know when you're really in love?
Most people these days can't differentiate between lust/infatuation and love...but I'm pretty sure I'm in love. My friend isn't convinced and says it's just infatuation, but isn't a crush more of a "out of sight, out of...
Anonymous
(30-35) A way to distinguish between...
Is there a way you would distinguish infatuation with someone and being in real love with someone? Say you've only been together a short time.
Anonymous
(30-35) Ex boyfriend treated me badly. I cheated with someone who truly loves me. What is this that I feel?
My boyfriend was a total jerk with me...I loved him deeply, I tried for a year to make him understand that he was hurting me deeply, he rarely showed that he truly cared about me... he always acted selfish.. treated me...
Anonymous
(36-45) I've never had someone go off on me for an act of kindness.
I used to be "DodgersMom2011" on here but got sick of everyone assuming I had kids. So new name... to fit my mood. Anyway... a update for those friends I used to have and who care. I talked to the neighbor guy and he...
PeopleLie
Xper 6 Age: 44 Why does he not want a relationship when he says he loves me and wants me?
My ex boyfriend is 30 and I'm 23. We dated for couple months until I noticed him flirting with his coworkers. From then on, I became extremely clingy, and things went downhill. He broke up with me saying that we didn't...
Anonymous
(36-45) Double standards in a relationship...
Thanks in advance for the advice...I'm at a crossroads : / Short version: My boyfriend's a big flirt. I trust that he wouldn't take his flirting any further than just flirting, but he doesn't seem to realize the door...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can you have love without respect?
Can you love someone without respecting them? Or can it only be infatuation, never love?
Anonymous
(36-45) And this is how it feels?
Recently there had been some great changes to my life and me as a person. I've got over a depression that lasted for many months, I met a lot of people who might become my friends, and I'm learning things I've never even...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is love to you?
Short question, but perhaps not that simple! When are you convinced that a partner loves you? What, for you, is the difference between infatuation and true love?
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Xper 5 Age: 31 Don't understand why she changed after so long....
We have been dating for awhile now. We were really close and over the infatuation phase for sure. We got together everyday, and we were happy with each other. Eleven days ago she became cold with me after her mom wouldn't...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it possible to turn infatuation into love?
We became intimate very soon and while our attraction for each other and sex is a 20 on a scale of one - 10, there is still sort of a lack of an emotional connection. I understand that this does indeed take time, but any...
Anonymous
(36-45) How should I forget about a woman that I once loved?
When I was in High School, I found out years later. There is this girl who had an infatuation on me. I felt the same on her too. I didn't bother asking because there was a lot of boys would gang up on her. Her friend is...
Anonymous
(36-45) Man not into physical details?
Here is the deal: Many men and women pour over the details of body parts...and who is sexy, who is not sexy... What is a woman to think when a man doesn't appear to be checking out her body parts with scrutiny - but...
Temporary46
Xper 5 Age: 41 How did you realize that you're in love with someone?
Has there ever been one defining moment when you realized you're in love with someone? I'm asking because It has completely knocked me for a loop. Bit of a long story. The girl who I became friends with on the first...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can you tell if its love and not just attraction or infatuation?
i really think about how can one tell if its love and not infatuation, what if at that time you think its love and later on realize it was just infatuation.. is there any way one can figure out at that time before its too...
Anonymous
(36-45) Love vs. Infatuation... How do you know the difference?
When you're dating someone and you have very strong feelings for them after a short time, they make you feel complete, like they're the only person who understands you, they accept you just as you are and don't expect you...
Anonymous
(30-35) Men: What's the soonest you've ever told a girl you loved her?
If you meant it at the time - What made you feel that way about her? Did you know whether it was actually love or infatuation, or did you not even mean it at all? How did she react? Did she find it creepy, say it back,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, do you love someone if they make you restless at night?
This guy said he didn't like me that way but we remained friends. Its been about 3 months and he wrote a post about a month ago that he never thought he'd be restless at night and lost without me and used my tag name,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Known this guy for a week and he is already in love with me?
Okay so I added this guy on Facebook a week and half ago...and he is already in love with me and wants to get married to me? He lives in texas and I am from cali...i told him he is just infatuated and hasn't seen me or...
Anonymous
(36-45) The differences between 'love 'em because you need 'em', an infatuation and genuine love, your opinions?
All of the above are similar things that most people seem to ignore. Well people, have you ever thought about the differences between the times when you love someone just because you NEED someone like them, and when...
Anonymous
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