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Within the last year, I have been chatting with a guy , I dated as a teen. We have been speaking online, Skype, and via telephone, to the point that I have fallen in love with him. However, every time we get close he stops talking with me, for a month (s) and I always have to reached out to him, first (example: the other night he finally said he has intense feelings for me, which is unusual for him because he doesn't express himself and I haven't heard for him , after this revelation, although I have called and texted him). He knows I love him dearly and if I had to choose, I want my life with him. He knows I do not expect him to say he loves me too, just because that is how I feel (no pressures from me, I am an intense person, at times.) Prior , he expressed that he always wanted to be with me, and how if we progressed he wants a life with me. I go in between three different scenarios, as of why we cannot progress they are: 1) he is afraid because he had a very bad relationship, with someone he loved years ago (men tend to carry their baggage a very long time) 2) he is playing games with me because he is upset, still, I did not like him a lot when we dated as teens and now that I am interested, he is having a field day with me (I know immature , but people are out for revenge sometimes) 3) He is seeing someone else, but afraid to tell me because he still wants me around and knows I will not continue to talk to him , if that is the case (no he isn't the player type, but sometimes someone doesn't exhibit those qualities to you and really are like that... you only really know what you do and what someone else tells you). My question is why does he keep pulling away, every time when make progress? ps: we are doing a long distance 'thing' because he just came back from overseas (fighting for our country) and we are in different states, so no physical interaction has taken place.

I love him, but I don't think he loves me the way I do. We fight a lot and most is about him not caring enough or paying attention to me. I feel neglected and upset all the time. I talked to him before, he tried to change to make me happy but he will eventually forget it and go back to the way he was. When we lived together for five and a half months, he hardly text or call me during the day when I'm at work. When I went home from work, he would play game or went fishing. I got upset because I felt like he didn't care about my feelings, and he said he thought spending time together is enough and he's not into texting n calling. I got really upset and wanted to break up but he said he will change.
Then I moved one hour away for school. He traveled once a week to visit me. He texts n calls a few times a day and we Skype at night to study together. But he will eventually changes back to the way he was. He will text me before he goes to school then stop and call me at night for two or three minutes. Then he won't Skype at all and go to bed. He makes me feel lonely because we lack of communication. We got a fight two nights ago about it. He and I were skyping at 11pm after he was done fixing his bike and I was done with my online exam. He didn't even talk to me much n he watches soccer while I was staring at his face through video call. I left the Skype like that for 15 minutes and I told him I went to bed n hung up. He texted me telling that it's so ridiculous that I treated him that way. I called him and I was like i wanted to break up because I'm so tired that he doesn't care.
He was like so I can't even watch soccer? Why are you being mad over those small little things? Give me a break please. To be honest I love you but I got no time for you because I'm so busy so go find someone who can treat you better than I do.
I cried the whole night and I blocked his calls and tried to move on. He asked for once more chance but I ignored his texts yesterda