Search Results: scared of commitment

The guy I like gets close but then distances himself again? Help?

He had one girlfriend before and it was a terrible breakup. He has really bad commitment issues now. I know he feels something for me but when he gets too close and starts showing that he cares about me, he then distances...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are guys scared of commitment? and what can I do to make him commit?

In general, guys and girls go through relationship experiences that make them scared of commitment but I hear this phrase more in terms of guys as opposed to girls. The actions that come along with being scared can be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What makes guys afraid of commitment?

If a guy thinks a girl is perfect and wants to date her really bad and when things start to get serious, he gets scared and breaks up with her, what does this mean? why does he do this? My example is with a guy who had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is two weeks too long for a guy with commitment issues to cool off? Does this mean he's not interested?

I think I scared a guy with commitment issues away by asking him where things were going too soon. The conversation ended up feeling like an argument and he said he felt pressured. I apologized and he ended up staying...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Commitmentphobic bf doesn't invite me to hangout with his friends, why?

We've been dating for 8 months. I have met all his friend. A few times but that was it. After that, he stopped inviting me. I have a feeling its because he has commitment issues. He told me that having a gf scares him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are we friends or does he have feelings for me?

I have crazy feelings for one of my guy friends and I told him I had feelings for him a couple of months ago and when I told him he said absolutely nothing and didn't respond, it was a little awkward for the first two...

katievee86

Xper 5 Age: 40

What am I supposed to do with someone who is scared of commitment? and why do guys get scared?

Well I shouldn't be complaining cause things have been going strong but I think if I ask him again "am I your gf?" it will make things "complicated." But why? What is so hard about calling me your gf dammit? Sorry, its...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fear of commitment and intimacy, how do you know you have it?

I think I have commitment and intimacy issues. My parents have a bad marriage and I hear them argue a lot and my stomach ties in knots and I think "I NEVER want to get married and be like them" My dad is emotionally...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend fears he got me pregnant now he isn't talking to me what to do?

I haven't talked to him since the other night and when we was having sex he got finished fast which is un normal and went to the bathroom. He said he think he nutted in me and I was on my cycle still. Now my cycle is gone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If he doesn't see a future with me, why is he dating me?

Been dating my bf for 8 months. He has commitment issues and is afraid of gettibg hurt in relationships and is super guarded. He recently said he doesn't see a futue with me. Why is he dating me than? or is he just saying...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is wrong with me? What am I?

I am struggling with a weird identity problem. I think (read on) I know who I am, what I can, I am fully aware of my flaws. I don't want to list my flaws or good sides, but people have a very positive opinion about me and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Commitment Issues?

I have a new girlfriend. I bought her a nice diamond ring to show how much I am committed to our relationship. She say's she is also committed to me as well... but---there is a guy in California that she dated for awhile...

kurevet

Xper 5 Age: 64

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend is scared of future! Should I work it through or leave?

My boyfriend and I have dated a little over 3 years. We recently transferred colleges to be together. Things were finally going so well. He even said he wanted to marry me, and he was always the one who brought up our...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he push me away if he likes me?

So basically this guy and I have liked each other for like two years, he'd always tease me and compliment me, etc, but we kept playing games with each other so nothing had happened. I told him I liked him last year and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I have commitment issues? Will I ever be consistent?

I was in a 6 year abusive, controlling relationship... I finally got out and was in a womans aid which helped me get my own place... It's been 4 years since I left him and since then i've had one bf which lasted just 3...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Really like a girl, its definitely a forbidden romance but it makes me want her more, what should I do?

Hello all, a little background story on this... I've been seeing this girl just over 3 months now, we live around 150 miles apart and I see her on some weekends. We have been texting a lot at first sending pics to each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can you ease the fear of a partner that has a fear of commitment?

I have someone that I am interested in and that I am sure is interested in me. But this SO because of her past I think is scared to commit to me relationship wise. We have talked and have chemistry and I know I turn her...

want2know22

Xper 5 Age: 50