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Women on here of all ages are CONSTANTLY complaining about men's bad behavior, how they mistreat them, how they lie and abuse them. But it also seems that they STAY in these relationships far too long and then want to know "why is he treating me like this"?

Well here's an idea. Why don't women lay out the "rules of engagement" from the start and make it absolutely clear there will be NO SECOND CHANCES ! No amount of "I love you's", or gifts, or apologies, will grant you a reprieve.

Say this to your potential boyfriend (and I say this because it's true for ALL women... right: :)

I am totally honest. I will never lie to you. Lie to me once, you're gone forever.
I will never hit you, throw things at you, or embarrass you in public. Do any of those once, you're gone forever.
I am loyal and will NEVER cheat on you. That means I'll have sex only with you, passionately kiss only you, share "myself" only with you. Anything else is "cheating". I expect the same from you, which doesn't mean you can't have friends, as long as that's all they are. So... cheat on me once, you're gone forever.

Establish this from the start. If he agrees, trust him until you have reason not to and confront him only if you have reason to. Look him in the eyes and ask " are you breaking any of my rules" ? Watch his face. You'll know.

So if he HAS broken one of the rules, kick him out. No bullshit, no asking "why", no tolerance. He had his chance, and blew it. And then... STOP COMPLAINING !

Girls just like dick and like to sleep around. So many girls just take new dick all the time. Most girls have fucked 30-50 people by the time they reach age 25. And no one say "guys sleep around too" because girls sleep around more than guys. Some guys sleep around like crazy (hundreds of girls) where as most guys rarely fuck casually, hence why it's called "getting lucky". Girls can have sex whenever they want and it's easy for them to get sex. Seen as girls love to be "free" and "sexually liberated" so they like to sleep around - not to mention girls are animals and just wanna be fucked by randos.

All of that is good. I think dating sucks and sex is all that matters so it's good that sex is as easy as getting a bottle of coke. So seen as sex is so easy, and women are just public orifices, why date? It seems point to me.

10 years ago I was in the middle of a love triangle. My a friend from high school liked me and I conceded that I had a crush on her but was unsure of a relationship. I went to college. Dated a new girl briefly. When my high school friend found out she was furious! She swore never to talk to me again. And she didn't. For 10 years.

I reached out to her best friend to find out how to make amends. I had never met her before. Her best friend joked that her friend could get emotional. We laughed it off. Next thing you know, we meet, there is an intense connection, she asks my friend if we can date. The friend agrees. And we date for 6 months. We are both in different colleges and it is long distance. I then move out of state so we break up. A year later we rekindle things, but I am away on business. It is long distance. Then after a near sex experience (I had never lost my virginity)... she dumps me.

10 years later, the friend is my coworker. We rekindle our friendship. My presumption is that she tells my ex girlfriend (her best friend still) details of me and what is new in my life. I admitted to my high school friend that I was coming to terms with being sexually abused as a kid at the time that I dated her best friend (my ex). I told her that it impacted who I was during my relationship (made me act strange in intimacy). Since then I've gotten help and Im a lot better.

I wrote a short fiction story. It was selected for a public reading at a bar. I invite my high school friend (now coworker) to come. I tell her that she can invite anybody and rattle off names of coworkers. Instead, she sends me a text at 12 a. m. asking if my ex-girlfriend can come see me read my story.

I haven't seen my ex-girlfriend in 10 years and she was the first person I fell in love with. What's the dealio here? By the way, the short story I will end up reading in 2 days in front of them? A romance... Oh boy! Haha..