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My boyfriend has two women that want him and contact him regularly, they are both from his past and both want to be with him. He's told them he's in a relationship yet they both continue to flirt with him and one even tried to lay a guilt trip on him about not talking to her since we got together. When it comes up (and it does frequently) I get anxious and it always starts a long discussion about how insecure I am and how I don't have anything to worry about and always makes remarks about how I talk to people of the opposite sex. The difference is, and I have stated, none of them have said they want to have my baby or that they love me and don't want me to tell my boyfriend I'm talking to them, not to mention I've never slept with either one or tried to be in a relationship with them before, they are just old internet friends I have never even met in person. Should I just go ahead and stop talking to my old friends and show him that I am serious? I would rather do that than cause any strife over my friendships with them, he means more to me than they do. Not in the poll, but should I try and just let this go once and for all, he always said no one was going to tell him who he could/could not talk to but has stated before he would stop talking to them if it would make me feel better (though he still brought them up from time to time and talks about missing them).
I really need opinions, not just poll results, please state why you answered the way you did. Thanks!

My guy has two women that want him, they are both from his past and both want to be with him. He's told them he's in a relationship yet they both continue to flirt with him and one even tried to lay a guilt trip on him about not talking to her since we got together. When it comes up (and it does frequently) I get anxious and it always starts a long discussion about how insecure I am and how I don't have anything to worry about and always makes remarks about how I talk to people of the opposite sex. The difference is, and I have stated, none of them have said they want to have my baby or that they love me and don't want my boyfriend to tell me they are talking to him.. He says that they both make him uncomfortable but they are both old friends he doesn't want to lose. He does have a big heart and thinks of the latter one as a baby sister that he used to watch over, he'd tried to have a relationship with her in the past but she chose someone else.

I'm so frustrated! the first woman aborted his child without even telling him she was pregnant over 10 years ago and the other one is married with kids yet texted him last night and said it upset her that he let me read her texts. I'm too old to be getting jealous over these women but I still feel it come over me, I don't think he handles them properly at all and he won't take my advice on what to say but instead insists on handling things his way. I feel like he is encouraging them but he doesn't and says I don't know them like he does. I love him and we are committed to each other, I know I have nothing to worry about with him. He's never cheated on anyone and is extremely loyal. I just find it HIGHLY disrespectful that these ladies won't get it through their head what is appropriate and what is not and moreso with him for putting me in this position in the first place by not being more clear with them. Should I just let it go or should I dig my heels in? I'm scared of pushing him away but this is an ongoing issue I don't know if I can really deal with much longer without getting in a major argument and ultimatums being made, which he has stated several times he wouldn't tolerate from me.

Ok. Say you are a nice, friendly person. Maybe a bit shy when it comes to opposite sex. You are gonna have to change schools and all. Say you were talking to a girl/guy and wasn't sure if they likes you and so hadn't made a move. If she wrote a note and passed it through a friend ( assuming you already left and she couldn't give it to you herself) and said good luck at your new school but here's my number and email. You are welcome to contact me. I really care for you.. Would that be enough to encourage you to contact them?