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Search Results: dealing with a shy guy
How do I get this guy to ask me out?
I work with a guy who is on the same floor as me. He works in a different program on another side so I only see him when in the elevators or at the printers. I've learned a while ago that guys are helpers so asking a guy...
so4chaotic
Xper 5 Age: 38 Our first date is going to be a double date. What should I expect?
The guy I've been talking to for few weeks finally asked me out. But on a double date with his two best friends (a couple). One mutual friend told me that he's not surprised at all that my guy pulled this out because he's...
Anonymous
(36-45) Dramaqueen looking for help understanding a secretive guy?
Me and this dude have been talking for 4 months and we see eachother every other weekend. he's always the one asking me to come over. We always have an awesome time and he's so sweet to me. But now last 2 months maybe we...
samsara15
Xper 4 Age: 30 How do you make yourself more approachable (specificially to the opposite sex)?
I'm afraid others may view me as not being very approachable. I've always been fairly shy, and when it comes to men I get anxious around those I like and have trouble making eye contact if I'm close to them (across the...
Diskid
Xper 5 Age: 39 Is the dating dream life pretty much over at age 25 and beyond for virgin males (nice guys)?
What I mean by this question is that I am 26 clean male & I am still a virgin. I couldn't pick up a date because I was either shy or nervous or I was always there for my girl (a shoulder to cry on) and she just wanted to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it good, bad or both when a guy tries too hard to be perfect for you?
A guy I met at college helped me a lot through my first year. I struggled and since he was a year ahead he was very skilled. He offered me unnecessary help just to have an excuse to talk to me everyday. He was always in...
Anonymous
(30-35) Will a guy be more distant if he feels like the girl he likes just likes him as a friend?
Because that’s how I feel like this guy I like is acting with me. We started off as friends and treated him like one but I noticed he started treating me differently from all his other friends especially the ones that are...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are girls so complicated with their signals? Dealing with unexpected rejection?
I started work at a new place recently. Me and this girl who is Portuguese have developed a really special connection over the past 3-4 months. I have no doubts whatsoever she's into me. Then, I ask her out.. just...
k-ehoe
Xper 4 Age: 31 My Experience With Sexual Harassment in the Workplace.
Unfortunately, I did wait a long time before writing this, so I won't remember as many details as I did a year ago, when it happened. I'm prepared for some denial and negativity and claims of "you were totally asking for...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does this sound like a normal thing for a guy to do?
This guy I met at college suddenly became shy around me. He wasn’t really like this before. It’s like his mood changes when I’m around. He seems more scared and sad when he sees me. When he’s with his friends he’s the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why don't I attract decent guys?
I've attracted way too many fuckboys than I am comfortable with, and I don't know why. I'm not a girl who puts out; I'm shy, naive, a bit awkward, so on. Granted, my innocence has led to some... uncomfortable...
Anonymous
(30-35) What would be going through a guy's head when dealing with a girl like this?
I was a later bloomer. When I was in high school guys wouldn't even look at me, or talk to me, and I dealt with teasing/bullying which crippled my self-esteem for quite a while. When I got to college, the first year...
lolitaaa__
Xper 5 Age: 29 His body language and what he says are totally different?
I'm very shy in nature and when I have feelings for someone even though I try to hide feelings, some people may understand I have a crush because I can behave awkward or be nervous around the person I'm in love. I have a...
Anonymous
(30-35) I think I made my crush a little jealous?
My crush went to the same college as me and took the same program as me but he just recently graduated but still hangs out on campus working on his work and personal projects. He used to help me with my assignments and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I even datable?
I'm almost 24, skinny but average looking and average height. I've worked full time since I was 18, I own my house, pay my bills, and am generally responsible in life. I also started going to college part time to get a...
blueguy932000
Xper 4 Age: 32 Ladies what do you think about this?
My name is Saiquan. I recently moved to the Charleston area about 6 months ago. I can't stand sitting around the house I have to be outside and I have to be active. I love meeting new people. I love trying new things. I...
hello009
Xper 6 Age: 35 Things I Do That Are Hindering Me From Being Truly Happy
I have always felt like my life has been missing something as long as I can rememeber. It has been things regarding dating, friends, school and work, but the older I got the more i realised my life isn't as "bad". I...
Belliebella
Yoda Age: 31 Crushing on a shy guy.. getting mixed signals?
So I have a guy that I like. He's not anti-social but he's shy. I only get to see him about once a month only because I'm a client of his dealing with art. He laughs and smiles a lot when we talk and at one point we had...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to make him ask me out? He is stepping back?
He's my coworker. He's deeply a nice guy. A little bit more or less arrogant/high self confidence. He's lonely thought. He's smart and nobody's fool. My character traits are hard: Very good heart, tender, kind, so...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a guy do this?
Hello, well this happened when i was in middle school, in the 7th grade. so i was picked on by this guy, i never knew him to begin with it, it started out by him making fun of my lisp, by mimicking how i spoke then he...
Anonymous
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