Search Results: he doesn't want a relationship

He loves both of us. What should I do?

We had a 7 years relationship, we're friends when kids, then we felt in love when teens. We went to college& worked together. After we graduate my family left the country. After a while I decided to be with them. But he...

Riogirl

Xper 3 Age: 47

Relationships

How do I let him go?

there's a guy I've been talking to for a few months. didn't have sex but he gave me head. a month ago he got into a relationship he "doesnt wanna be in" but it kinda just happened because he was "trying with me but i was...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

My psycho ex messed up my current relationship? Lost a love of my life because of her?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I was with my ex for 4 years, it was a high school relationship. I was heart broken after but we would just fight and i needed to venture. Anyway i moved to America - New York and met

I was with my ex for 4 years, it was a high school relationship. I was heart broken after but we would just fight and i needed to venture. Anyway i moved to America - New York and met a gorgeous girl who just captivated me. I loved everything about her. I meet her a year after breaking up with my ex. We both dated from the get go, 4 months. I didn't want to make it official because i didn't want my ex to go psycho on this girl and also my work situation wasn't steady and i was likely moving in 1 months. Anyway, she stuck around. Another month went by but then she brought up what we were. I then told her that i got the job in Arizona and i think its best we break things off because long distance sucks and i didn't want heartbreak and to put a time frame on us. We we split. She felt lead on but wished me well. I believe someone then told my ex and all of a sudden she was heading to Arizona in 2 months to work there with friends. I move for work going nc with the newyork girl then my ex contacts me to go for drinks with her and her mates. I went more to give my ex closure. Im guessing the New York girl found out through photos my ex put on Facebook, next day im not her friend on Facebook anymore. I was instantly upset. Because she didn't tell me why. My number was also blocked. I then told my ex off and told her we need to stop and decided to take her and her family off my facebook. Its been 8 months now and i get word im heading back to new york for work. I contacted the girl by letting her best friend know on fb that im coming back. I then get an email a week later from the ny girl saying that she 'will always care about me' and she 'doesnt play games' and she 'doesnt want to make me jealous because its highschool crap'. However at the end of the email she put 'best wishes'. Which to me implies for me yo leave her alone. I want her back. I dont want to scare her awayIm at a crossroads. Which option should i take?

Sorry its so long, i guess im just in need of advice...

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Dating

My ex asked my mom for coffee?

So he and i broke up due to distance. I applied no contact as well as taking him off all my socials simply to just move on because he told me that he 'doesnt want a relationship' and if we keep chatting he will be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So he and i broke up due to distance. I applied no contact as well as taking him off all my socials simply to just move on because he told me that he 'doesnt want a relationship' and

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Dating

I have a feeling that my "ex" doesnt't want to be just friends?

We never officially dated, but it felt like we did. Anyways we broke it off because he didn't know what did he want and blah blah blah.. we didn't talk for almost a month and now he contacted me two days ago and we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Do people get into relationships just to simply "claim" the other person for ego purposes?

There's this guy who claims to have a "girlfriend," yet she is very different than he is. I don't see them marrying each other or having anything very long term that gets serious. She is very very attractive and has made...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Need advice, is my relationship fine or doomed?

some background info: so my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years now! We went through long distance, highschool and now ending college together. We are both 22 and now live together. Things have been rocky since...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Are we the Generation that doesn’t want relationships?

What this article says is very true. It is a bit long but the article is very smart. It really talks about today's issues for certain generations and ages who does not want to be in a relationship with a guy or girl but...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

I dont think I want to be with my boyfriend anymore. Are these good reasons to end it? Or am I overreacting?

We have a good time together and we really like eachother. but I've been thinkig of breaking it off. I dont know if these are good enough reasons to end it. I need advice... Reasons to break up: - hangs out a lot with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is he still interested?

We have been dating 7 months... our relationship is pretty interesting, he has 2 kids, an ex, works away from home 2 weeks in a month.. he used to message and call everyday and then a month ago it just stopped, the calls...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Ladies mature question?

23 dating a 20 year old. she had just told me she got off an abusive relationship (1st sign warning she likes women abusers). I was living in my uncles living room at the time since i had just moved into nyc/part time...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Really serious mature problem?

I was 23 dating a 20 year old. she had just told me she got off an abusive relationship (1st sign warning she likes women abusers). I was living in my uncles living room at the time since i had just moved into nyc/part...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

We are best friends and now we are in love with each other but she won't admit it. what should I do?

Okay so me and this girl have been friends for like 7 years. I am a female as well. We've always had an eye for eachother since gradeschool but we never took it to the next level until 2 years ago. We hook up a lot and it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Okay so me and this girl have been friends for like 7 years. I am a female as well. We've always had an eye for eachother since gradeschool but we never took it to the next level until

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Dating

Army Boyfriend Dilemma. Should I just wait until he comes home?

My boyfriend has been stationed in Germany and I met him when he came home for leave last summer. We hung out a couple times with mutual friends but never alone. We kept in touch and a few months after he went back and a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What does he mean?

So my boyfriend and I of a couple years now have been doing the llong distance thing It fucking sucks It got to the point that we were just arguign a lot of the time and wanted to reconcile So long story short had a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guys, He says he doesn't want to "call it too soon" am I over anaylsing?

So I have been dating this guy for 3 months now. I'm a very closed person, I dont like to have emotional conversations but im desperate here. So anyway, I asked this guy im seeing "what is this?" like trying to clarify...

Maddi2912

Xper 5 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

My girlfriend just told me she wants a break?

We've been dating for 1.5 years already and we've had our ups and downs. The reason why she wanted a break is because I was playing with her while she was sleeping. She did not like that, and told me i was being very...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

HELP ME?:( Will he regret his choice of dumping me?

So i've been in a relationship since summer 2014 and it was really love at first sight. We really were perfect together, we had a great sexlife, act like best buddies, went very often on a spontanious trip and we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is she interested in more than friends or not?

I know this girls for quite sometimes, she always called me bro. And recently we get really close, and she start hanging out with my other close friends of mine. She is currently dating a guy, and she keeps saying that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My mom doesn't want-to-spend time with me and doesn't check on me a whole lot she-doesnt even want to-hangout anymore?

I have-to ask her to call me and ask-to spend-time i just-got out-of a-domestic relationship i figured she would be here calling-and wanting-to be-here-for me and-when i ask her to call or do-something with me she's like...

Anonymous

(36-45)