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Hi all, I'm in a unique situation, and was hoping to get everyone's $0.02-

Background: I'm an OBGYN. I recently learned that a casual acquaintance, who's also a physician, has been suffering from recurrent early miscarriages (despite genetically normal embryos) after multiple rounds of IUI and IVF. She is now considering using a gestational surrogate.

I myself am super blessed to have easy pregnancies and fast, uncomplicated deliveries (one in the ER triage area, and the other in the backseat, lol.) Looking at that, alongside the fact that recurrent miscarriage is one of the bane's of every OB's existence, I REALLY want to help.

I'm not at all averse to reaching out to others in ways that are "biologically salient." In college, I even looked into donating a kidney to guy at my school who needed one, but ended up being a poor match. I say this not to canonize myself at all, but just to point out that I'm not risk averse, and I really don't think that this is just my emotions doing the talking. The problem is, I don't actually know her all that well- I'm more a friend of her husband, as we work together sometimes.

For those on the the other side of things- would it be totally awkward and out of line if someone you didn't know well- or someone you only knew professionally- offered to act as your GS? Of course I would make it abundantly clear that there would be no hard feelings if she wasn't comfortable, but I still worry that she might feel pressure. Thoughts?

I have always been against taking drugs.
However, I can tell my cycle is different, changing in ways I am not sure whats going on.
It affects me in negative ways and the smallest thing can trigger it.

At times, my negativity can hurt other people, hurt myself as well. Its a terrible feeling.
I have ask my OBGYN, she said it can make me depressed.
Many women said, it helped them monitor their mood.

What has been your exp. before and after taking the pill?

So this woman 26 who's a massage therapist and this guy who's 49 who's a firefighter we're dating for 8 months and she finds out that's he's been messing around with an 44 year old flight attendant through social media (a woman around his age he claims he doesn't talk to because he's set in his ways but she finds out and confronts him and he has nothing to say but kisses her and tries to change the subject and all the sudden after that the woman she confronted him about her social media is now private. So for a month the 26 yr old doesn't hear from him until she gets a call from her obgyn that she has trichomonas an STD that cured and calls him and tells him on the phone from his end there's nothing but dead silence in a dry apology so she hangs up and weeks later he doesn't call or check up on her period so she deletes him from social media and few week's go by she misses him and decided to follow an friends advice and creates an fake social media account just to be nosey and he finds out it's her so she looks on the other womans page that's 44 that he was talking to and the woman opens up her page to drag her because he told her too. Question is who was in the wrong? The 49 yr old man or the 26 yr old. By the way she knew where he lived and worked by didn't go by his place if she really wanted to do something but didn't
Was she in the wrong or him
Please explain answer

So this woman 26 who's a massage therapist and this guy who's 49 who's a firefighter we're dating for 8 months and she finds out that's he's been messing around with an 44 year old flight attendant through social media (a woman around his age he claims he doesn't talk to because he's set in his ways but she finds out and confronts him and he has nothing to say but kisses her and tries to change the subject and all the sudden after that the woman she confronted him about her social media is now private. So for a month the 26 yr old doesn't hear from him until she gets a call from her obgyn that she has trichomonas an STD that cured and calls him and tells him on the phone from his end there's nothing but dead silence in a dry apology so she hangs up and weeks later he doesn't call or check up on her period so she deletes him from social media and few week's go by she misses him and decided to follow an friends advice and creates an fake social media account just to be nosey and he finds out it's her so she looks on the other womans page that's 44 that he was talking to and the woman opens up her page to drag her because he told her too. Question is who was in the wrong? The 49 yr old man or the 26 yr old. By the way she knew where he lived and worked by didn't go by his place if she really wanted to do something but didn't
Was she in the wrong or him