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Search Results: putting it on the back burner
How should I handle this crush on a coworker?
So a couple months ago I got a promotion at work, and when I went to visit some friends from my old department I met this new girl who started working there about the same time that I moved up. Didn't feel anything...
Anonymous
(36-45) Bf just broke up with me and we have a baby together, any ideas?
Hi, My boyfriend and father of my baby broke up with me a few days ago. The reason why, he says is because he feels like we don't love each other and he's been battling anxiety, depression, insomnia, alcoholism and drug...
serenavee
Xper 5 Age: 42 My fiancee asked if I was more in love with anyone else ever...
I was engaged to someone for 5 years. he strung me along. who he pretended to be; I loved completely. He wasn't who I thought he was. he ended up dumping me and screwing one of my best friends. now I have baggage and am...
Anonymous
(36-45) How long does it take for a guy to forgive someone he dated for 2 months?
I met this guy on a dating site. We connected right off the bat. 2 months of glorious bliss, then I overracted when I found out he was sort of still browsing the dating site. I broke up with him, told him he might as well...
nhardin289
Xper 5 Age: 42 People who bag you out when you do not do what they want. Why?
My friend has started noticing that our mutual 'so called friend' is a bit of a fake and liar. I have noticed this myself but did not say anything till she brought it up. I have started distancing myself off this 'so...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Post 1st date frustrations!
Me and a guy went on a 1st date. Had a great time, great chemistry, and fooled around a bit. The next day I texted him to let him know I had a great time and that I would like to do something again. We texted back and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Just recently broke up with my ex and his birthday is coming up?
I just recently broke up with my ex because of some issues we have been having lately. I just felt like our relationship was not in a good place and the only way to fix it was to remove myself from the situation so I told...
Anonymous
(36-45) I was told that maybe I'm too available, & that's why my boyfriend is being different. how do I change that?
it was suggested to me that maybe I'm too much of a "good girl" and that I'm too available to my boyfriend and that could be the reason why he's been changing and putting me "on the back burner". in an effort to not be...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is this sound reason to be upset with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend can be a pretty sweet guy from time to time. The problem however is that he kind of puts me on the back burner for his friends and family. For instance just last weekend I called him up upset and crying...
Anonymous
(36-45) Friend zoned or not? would you do this to a guy you like?
If you liked a guy but were afraid he didn't like you back would you start dating other guys or find out if he likes you first.. ? I read a question just now that described a girl similar to her. they said she like him...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is he still in love with me? I'm so confused
OK so in a nut shell.. my boyfriend and I dated for 5 years. broke up about 4 months ago about 2 weeks later he started dating another girl.. I basically wiped his ass for 5 years his sister is one of my best friends. his...
acourneyea7
Xper 5 Age: 36 Is my girlfriend blowing me off?
my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months. every time I try to make plans with her she always gives me the "possibly" answer. For example I asked her today if we were going to hang out tom night after I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should our relationship be a priority?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and have been living together for about 8 months. He started school last December again and since then has put our relationship on the back burner. We get into...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is time apart with a time limit a mistake?
So he has been shutting me out lately. Putting me off when I want to see him. Not responding to messages. Pretty much no contact and I didn't know why. I thought he wanted to end things. So finally tonight I told him -...
countygirl
Xper 5 Age: 47 What's the deal with guys putting girls on the back burner?
I have my own ideas, but what are the reasons for doing it? If a guy isn't THAT interested in a girl to keep her "on the top of the list" then why even stay in contact with her at all, especially when sex isn't involved?
Anonymous
(36-45) How can I be happy when he wants a break?
I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and two days ago he says he doesn't think he is ready for this relationship. (Now I guess I should note that sporadically within the past few months in...
EmilyAnn123
Xper 5 Age: 37 Trying to understand ex during reconciliation phase?
Hi guys, I'm 32, my ex is 26, in case that helps at all. My question is kind of broad, I'm looking for input that will help me understand her. My ex and I dated 10 months. We lived together for 3 months in the middle...
ReardenMetal
Xper 5 Age: 48 Interested in two men, now what?
I have been talking to two men, and both have their very strong points as well as weak ones in terms of what I am looking for in a long-term partner. I have not spent much time with either one of them, but when I do, I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is he still wanting to be with her after I proved to him she is not loyal or faithful?
.my ex is seeing a girl that we work with and has a rep as a skanky slut...well I have tried to tell him what kind of girl she is and he just thinks I want to break them up...i do but that is not the reason behind all of...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I don't know what to do...
ok here's the deal he and I were doing great, he left the state to go play football, we have a cell phone plan together... Since about 3 weeks after he left he completely did a 180. We would spend hours on the phone, text...
Anonymous
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