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I suspected my boyfriend was sleeping with a female friend whilst we were broken up. I have one reason to think so, being that she constantly flirted with him and he never really stopped her but also didn't flirt back. she kept asking him to have a "slumber party" and a "pajama party" and he finally just said yes when he hadn't given her an answer the first time.

soo flash forward to us getting back together. The girl calls him and he says they should get lunch, whilst I'm in the room. When he hangs up I told him I didn't want them hanging out unless I'm there & he informs me the girl called me crazy and ends up not going to see her because of how I felt. Does it sound like they slept together if he made plans to hang with her in front of me and wasn't at all acting secretive? He says they've never had a thing.

My boyfriend and I after being together for almost a year just broke up. I was the one who ended things because he just can't seem to understand that its not right to be secretive and hiding things in a relationship. We have had a few issues as of late and a major one has been his lack of honesty and him choosing to keep me in the dark over some important stuff over the duration of the relationship. He has not been transparent with me fully and I believe that is a requirement in a healthy relationship, well its definitely one of mine anyway!!

The shit hit the fan on Saturday night when I discovered he had not involved me or made me aware of something that I feel I had the right to know, there was no including me in it and running it past me and it was the straw that broke the camels back in the end, I just couldn't take another moment of it especially when he knew I was upset and tried to pass it off as nothing when it was something to me. This just added to the issue as I felt he was invalidating my feelings as his partner. The next morning I decided that I had really just had enough and did not wish to keep the relationship going. We haven't spoken since Sat night.

I had not taken him off my Facebook even though I had ended things. He puts up 2 memes on Sunday taking a dig at me knowing they would show up in my news feed and I would see them. This morning I find that he had posted a big colourful big lettered post saying: 'It was fantastic to catch up with you again Melanie, thanks for the coffee and good luck for today" He had a big smiley face up and even went to the trouble to tag her in the post so it appeared on hers as well.

Melanie is his ex girlfriend that he had before me a good 2 years ago. Obviously he had put it up so that I could see it because he knew that it would upset me. I must say it did kind of sting a little knowing that he had run back to his ex the day after we broke up for coffee. I blocked him. Why do this?

Here is the situation: You have been with your partner for 10 mths. You recently broke up for 3 weeks and have been back together for just 3 weeks also. The reason behind the split was due to your partners unhealthy lifestyle which was affecting the relationship in many ways namely they were being secretive and lying to you to cover up their issue.

Since getting back together your partner has made an active effort to get their life back on track and although it's only time that can help you learn to trust again you have been trying to be encouraging and supportive as well.

However your partner gets upset over something you say and overreacts and he refuses to try and see your point or even take on board how you feel. He then proceeds to sit at the dinner table with his 2 young kids, your young child and you but won't eat anything, instead he chooses to sulk, roll his eyes at you when you ask why he isn't eating and rudely state that he has lost his appetite.

He then once kids are in bed, goes to sit outside to ignore you for hours, you go out after a while to see if he wants to talk and he still refuses to see your point and just argues, raising his voice at you, swearing at you and telling you to fuck off. Bear in mind you don't live together and this is your home, him and his kids were just staying for the weekend.

You walk away because there is no point in continuing the argument. You go to bed, he eventually comes up and grabs his pillow from your bed and goes to sleep with his son on the spare bed instead.

You are so mad that he is acting this way after only being back together for 3 weeks that you decide to send him a text message :

I can't handle your Shitty attitude and I'm not interested in starting 2018 off like this, you ignoring me, shouting at me and telling me to fuck off in my own home so perhaps just go home tomorrow. Go and enjoy your New Years Eve with your kids, I will do the same with my daughter then their will be no further arguments.