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Obviously, there are multiple reasons why someone can be attractive, but the question is really about which one reason is the driving or most powerful reason an older guy is attractive.

Without writing a novel about each option, people know they are attracted to someone else when they get a gut-level emotion or feeling. That feeling could be: (a) confidence in knowing that the person is at a certain life stage to be ready to give you what you want in terms of marriage and family; (b) comfort in knowing that the person is genuinely caring, warm, understanding, listening, considerate, and emotionally affectionate and tender; (c) a burning hunch that this person knows his way around the bedroom and your body than anyone else you've ever met, and that you could enjoy the best sex of your life - over and over again - if you're with him; (d) feeling like you've met your other half or philosophical twin, or just someone you can communicate with on a deeper level and is able to keep up with you and keep you interested intellectually; (e) feeling feminine and like a woman around him or with him, and seeing him as manly and masculine, creating a sharp contrast effect around the male/female dichotomy.

So, which one is it for you?

Feel free to comment, but this is mostly about the poll.