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As you guys, at least some of, might know, I am in a relationship with a French-born American girl now since around four weeks ago. I went to her home for Thanksgiving Dinner on Wednesday, and I took part in her party in her home and slept overnight with her.

When we were on the bed, I talked about a dream I recently had: In that dream, a terrorist attack was carried out by ISIS, and I became one of the victims while she was not present, so she was totally unaffected.

Actually, not very long after the recent Paris Attack, I seriously told her that I would protect her if that happened here in the United States. And if her life was threatened by the terrorists, I would even die for her survival if I could.

And then, after I told her the dream I joked with her: Hey, babe. If I died, what would you do? Would you put a ring on my finger?

When she heard that, she tightly hugged me and began to weep, and said: Babe, this will never ever happen, right? Promise! I could not lose you! I cannot afford that!

On Thursday, I had a breakfast and a lunch and some conversations and entertainment with her and her parents and siblings at her home, then she drove me back to our college and then she returned to her home and will come back to our college on Saturday.

She texted me yesterday, asking me to promise that we will never separate for any reason. She also called me and told me that she loves me forever, and yes, if I really died, she will put a ring on my finger if I wanted.

And waht should I do?

Reference posts here, if you want some more background:
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/flirting/q1751849-is-she-doing-too-aggressively
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/q1769500-i-met-her-parents-today-do-you-think-i-am-doing-good-with-her-family
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/q1782971-should-i-bring-this-up-to-her-how-to-do-it

This girl I really like asked me to a girls choice formal dance in high school. We have been friends since 3-6th grade but 7-10th never had a class so we just said hi in the halls. This year she is in two of my classes and we would never really talk to each other until she asked me. Right after she asked me she gave small signs she liked me like talking nervously and I would catch her looking at me in class and she would look away. She asked me to go on a hike with her friend before the dance to get to know each other and I went with her and she seemed interested in me but not so much. We would text a bit and I could feel her open up to me. The day of the dance/date she seemed pretty into me. She laughed at almost everything I said and we talked a lot. During the dance she asked if I liked running and said we should go running sometime. Then during a slow dance she said we should go country swing dancing. I told her I suck and said my friends are better fit for taking her but she said that's fine ill go with you. But then things changed. We watched a movie after the dance at her house and she started telling me about her awkward dates and she then told me how she wants to date multiple people and not date the same person. After that during the doorstep hug i started to leave and she reminded me and said we should go running and country dancing. And i don't know if she really wants me to take her or not because it contradicts what she said before about not dating the same person. She talks to me now a lot more. She slowly is starting to flirt with me over text. Her friends start talking to me and saying hi. In person she makes an effort to talk to me. In fact she waited in the lunch line with me even though she didn't need it... My friends say she likes me and I should take her. A few friends say she might want to be just friends. But I have no idea though. So does she like me and wants me to take her running and dancing? Or is just as a friend? Or does she not even want to go at all? If I should take her should I wait some time before asking her?