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Girls, have you experienced this?

It's so annoying, most girls who I'm friends with, they can easily find guys who just want to be friends with them,
and their guy friends never try anything creepy on them.

~~ It seems like a lot of guys can't treat me like a normal friend, instead they either show interest, or get pervy/creepy... or they bully me,
so i end up wanting to avoid most the men i come into contact with, cos they make it really awkward!! I can never win! 🤯🤯

But whenever i talk to a guy, in a friendly way (of any age, he could be 14 years OR 60 years old),
they automatically assume that I'm interested in them? 😷
Then they get flirty, turn the conversation sexual, ask for my phone number & they make me SO uncomfortable!!

.. And whenever an older man (40+ years) randomly tries to talk to me or say hi, i keep a straight, serious face, and i just listen to them out of politeness but i give them short blunt answers (trying to hint that I'm not interested)
... then they start complimenting me (i give a confused/creeped out face back) and they try to get my phone number / ask me to hang out with them... then i say "no, im not interested sorry".
It also makes me feel there's something wrong with me if mostly older men (the same age as my dad) are asking me out. 🤢

My ex boyfriend of 1 year was in jail and I waited for him and have always been extremely loyal to him and he knows this. We were practically living together for list of our relationship.

Now when he returned from jail we were having some stupid fights about finances and what I should wear when we go out, my weight loss diet, etc... stupid things that aren’t unresolveable... he was then telling me that He felt unappreciated which is not true cuz I always showed him that I love and care about him: he had a surgery and I went every single day to see him at the hospital and to take care of him.

June 28th he went on a date with a girl and I found out by chance... and we fought Bout it and then June 29th we broke up... but he said there may be a chance for us to fix things because I waited for him for 3 months when he was jailed.

for 2 weeks now I didn’t see him cuz I wasn’t well and I had fainted... I wasn’t always answering my phone either cuz I was very depressed... he keeps on telling me that he misses me and that he still loves me and cares about me and keeps asking me to come over to spend time togther with me and he wants to take me to a movie...
he also told me he is unsure about the other girl (she’s total opposite of me an aggressive gothic chic and I’m a sweet sensitive type of a girl). She also fights him a lot too... and people keep saying he’s crazy for her and they say they love each other all over social media...

is he realizing his mistake? Does he potentially wanna get back togther with me? Or is he really in love with this new chic after 5 weeks?