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Just wondering if other people think that this is stalking or if it's just co-incidental.

Background: I'm female, 26, live in Syd/Australia, city office professional. I met a guy - 24, Jehovahs Witness, from a country town via instagram.

He came to meet me one day after we had been talking for months by phone. We seemed to get on - he was a bit intense, but, it was okay. He then decided to move to be near me. He moved and signed a 9 month lease for his own place.

He is a frustrated barista (coffee maker) and seemed unhappy with his work/life. It started to affect the relationship and he became competitive with me. Also, I didn't find out that he was a JW until we were mid-dating - by then it was too late.

Eventually we broke it off realising it couldn't go anywhere - he was quite clingy when we were together and it put me off - plus I would never convert - he was a hardcore JW and I was mad he hid that from me.

Once we broke up I didn't hear from him at all. He knows where I work and when we were together he applied to work opposite me at a cafe - this made me uncomfortable and he knew. He also applied at many places nearby - he too knew this made me uncomfortable (too intense - too much). Anyway, a month later, I am on my phone at my favorite shop behind work, and who is working there? Him. I immediately walked away and didn't acknowlegde him.

I figured out that he has changed jobs 4 times in the last 2 months. Each time getting closer in proximity to where I live and work. He lives on the other side of the city.

I'm asking, is this just co-incidence or is this intentional? It's making me feel crazy. To me, working in the next street is unnecessary. Too close. No need for that.

Opinions?