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I know I've been odd at times in my development as a person, so I'd like to understand what is "average" or "normal".

Do you normally pine about finding someone to share your life with and then seek them out, or do you find somebody and then decide life would be better spent keeping them happy.

I did make a poll so I could see results, but I very much appreciate those who're willing to give their thoughts in the opinions section.

Generally speaking. This question also implies that the woman is not as responsible. Take into consideration things like women are more likely to initiate divorce. If the man is unhappy, he needs to deal with it. If the woman is unhappy, the relationship is threatened. Feel free to explain your answer.