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Me and my boyfriend of 7 years have been going at it a lot lately, mostly about him talking to other females. He is very flirtatious and will give or take a phone number from anyone. He also lies a lot. So i kicked him out everyday for a month I finally drew the line and told him by Friday he had to leave. He left but didn't take anything. He came over almost every day to see our kids and take a bath then I started letting him sleep over basically he never left! My hopes of breaking up and him leaving were for him to appreciate me and realize how important our family is to him. I started to see improvement he started spending more time with me and our kids and he would call me and answered the phone when I would call he'd even text me back. He would tell me daily how much he loved me and wanted to make things work and that he wanted to come home permanently I told him he had to stay consistent and keep showing me he wanted the relationship he did here and there but he never really gave it his all this has been going on for 3 weeks so a few days ago I find a few hair strands in his beard I question him and he tells me if he were doing anything with anyone besides me he would tell me so me being skeptical I check his online phone records and confront him I even had a conversation with the female in front of him basically he and she have been having a fling for a month and they have had unprotected sex at least once I have also have had unprotected sex with him 4 days before I found out and he has not been in contact with her and she has contacted me to apologize because he told her he had no contact with me at all he swears he will be a better man but he has promised in the past to change his cheating lying ways he's even volunteered to go to counseling and church so he can be a better spouse and father I don't know what to think I love him so much but having unprotected sex is so low down and dirty especially when you don't know the person from a hole in the wall

been together for a year and 3 months, we have lived together from the start and we get on very well, I think he is with me but I'm not sure. He is very very protective of me, like the whole time we have been together I have seen my friends only three times and he made me take pictures to prove where I was. Anyway, recently its been getting quite rocky, I found out he talks to girls quite a lot, girls he has had a past with, and he tells me I'm over reacting, I don't have his fb password but he has mine. one weekend he was meant to be going to my family bbq (he has never met my family so this was a really big deal) and he bailed, and met up with friends instead, I was so sad but he made me feel guilty for going on at him so I shut up. That night I stayed at my parents house leaving him at his and he told me he was just seeing a couple of friends (boys) and then his phone accidentally called me and I heard girls. I called him up and he denied it, so the next morning I go to his and I walk in his room and he's in bed with this girl called Dan, who is over here on holiday. He kicks me out of the house so he can go back to bed with her. I was in love with him so I got back with him bcoz he told me he just slept in the same bed as her, that nothing happened at all. A week later I find that he hasn't cut off comunication with her bcoz he has her number on his phone still and he has her on Facebook. He said he had her number for ages but she was here on holiday and I know she got a new sim because her friend told me. I tell my friend that I'm not sure if I'm making the right decision by staying with him and she asks around if he did anything with this Dan girl. My friend asks her best friend (who was also there with her boyfriend on the night I found him in bed with her) and she said yes they had sex, not the time I walked in but twice before. so I ask the girl and she said yes they did have sex, she could be lying because her best friend really hates me. help please help