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I just don't feel like I deserve to be called 7 inches because when I measure I make it to the 7th inch via the distance between the girthier part of the tip and the start of the rollover.
Maybe I'm just being insecure but I feel like saying 7 is like a calling yourself an A student when you've got only 90s

Am I the only one that feels like people (not all) are quick to say things like the following, to other people:

"Think positive"
"Don't let it get you down"
"Get over it"

But they don't actually tell you how to do it or give actual tips on how to not let things bother you. I'm not saying everyone who responds with those lines or anything similar, doesn't care or anything, because it can definitely be hard to try and find a solution for some people's problems and I think it's better than nothing.

I feel like some people only listen to other people's problems, just so they can respond with something, like the lines I mentioned, instead of trying to take it in and find a solution as to how they can actually deal with the issue or am I the only one that feels this way?

So once again, how do you actually not let things bother you, like how do you make your brain understand that, what are your tips, because anyone can say that XYZ isn't bothering them, when it may well be doing so inside their head. How do you get to the point where it doesn't bother you?

The person's situation may vary, but for the sake of the question, let's refer to people who are bothered by criticism or negativity from other people, whether online or in person. How can they go about not letting it bother them?