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>Basically, my girlfriend and I have not been together that long, but since we have we've talked about every day and there was like a genuine interest in talking to me; yes we've done all the sexual stuff and we really enjoy each others company.

> She was working 45 hour weeks last week and managed to cope but was always tired as a result, which is fair enough and I told her she should stop working so much!

> Sunday I Was near her workplace and she was like you should have come and visited me, would have made my day so much better! and she also called me to chat as she normally would!

> Monday she starts a second job (leisure activity - 1 hour) which she enjoys but her schedule starts getting busier and the replies started to become really short and infrequent

> Tuesday is the same, practically driving me insane as I don't know the cause of why bare in mind she is working again and also starting a third job (Independent work - 2 hours) and her response to me is still cold.

> Wednesday: still cold; I get a reply as she cancels plans for me to meet her parents (raincheck) but has a completely valid reason! so I call her up (get a text saying, I'll call back in 30 minutes) and when she calls I ask if she's okay and everything, and I make her laugh and smile, and everything seems fine; we've both made different plans, she's seeing her best friend and I'm seeing mine instead. And when I ask about why the little replies she says "Everything is getting on top of me at the moment and I'm struggling to cope." I told her it's fine and I understand you need your space" and she says "have a good night, you" But it just seems to be only me she's blocking out, she's still in communication with her best friends etc..

> Thursday: Complete Radio Silence on my end, no attempt by her to contact me. She's meant to be seeing me next week on the Tuesday at my uni! - My friend asked her about it (they talk) and she said yeah she was!

So I met this girl about a month ago and things have been going pretty quickly between us to the point we’re actually together (boyfriend-girlfriend), things were going great, we were having pretty good sex, and it got to the point where we were had 4 different conversations and she would reply to all 4 of them simultaneously throughout the day. Even when she was busy doing things, she would make the effort, and reply. I would get calls from her throughout the day from her and she’d want to talk to me. She also mentioned that she absolutely loves talking to me and that it’s amazing how close we’ve become, I agreed as for me it’s out of character, but it felt so right.

Recently she’s been working a hell of a lot, she was working a lot before but now she’s balancing 3 jobs (1 work job that pays money and 2 volunteer jobs that take up 1 hour each). And although I don’t mind when she’s busy, it’s like she completely switched over night.

Instead of getting replies on all 4 conversations, I’m barely getting a reply on just one of the conversations. and when I do there's a 5-10 wait for a really short response, not even getting calls on the way to work. She might just be busy, but has time to use social media and reply to her friends. just not me. I’m basically getting the cold shoulder over-night.

Had plans to meet her parents but had to cancel due to a family member going into hospital (It seemed like a legit response). Both of us are back to university on Saturday and we’re going to be 2 hours apart and we've spoke about it and agreed it can work

So I called her yesterday (she didn’t pick up) and said call you back in 30! and we speak for 40 minutes and I ask if she is okay? (didn’t want to sound needy by asking her why she hasn’t replied). I was making her laugh and smile and we'd both made other plans. I asked her if I would see her before I go back and she said probably not, as she's busy

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