Search Results: mess up a relationship

Been talking to this guy for almost 2 months?

I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 months but we've only been out 1 time because of everything going on. It's to a point now I don't know where we stand and I hate this part in relationships. I've had another guy...

Karmar128

Xper 1 Age: 34

So I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 months?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex cheated and me and is manipulating me to feel guilty?

It was a horrible long relationship and he even physically abused me sometimes. I caught him cheating on me (he legit had blocked me from his insta stories and had posted this girl). He said it was only when we were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think I want to break up with my boyfriend but I'm too scared to. How do I go about it?

These last few days have been me really thinking about my relationship with my boyfriend. I know I really love him, because I would give him the world and I've supported him through everything. I've respected him and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this a good thing or bad thing what I am doing? Am I leading her on?

I met this girl, her looks are usually not at all what I go for in a woman. She is definitely not my type, but she has something a little bit about her appearance that I find a little interesting. But she has a nice...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who is supposed to pay for things in a relationship?

I am recently in a relationship we have been together for one month. My boyfriend is very chivalrous and we both are pretty conservative and traditional in our beliefs. So he insists on paying for things most of the time....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

My long distance ex still wears my hoodie while she’s in a new relationship, whats should think of that?

I was on instagram and saw my ex’s story, she was wearing my hoodie which i find it weird cause she’s with a new guy. We broke up around the end of January and we were together for about 8 months. in my opinion its kinda...

Anonymous

(18-24)

If you mutually break up and become best friends, and have a goal in mind, could it work this way?

So. I have a guy friend who him and his girl broke up mutually and chose to be best friends. She was undergoing a lot and they both agreed that she was having a hard time cause they ended up moving too fast. I'm friends...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I don’t want to lose him as a friend in my life. So what should I do?

This was our second breakup. We were together for 8 months & were perfect throughout it all, except towards the end of April. We never fought, we both made a lot of effort for each other, we saw each other almost daily, &...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I had the most perfect boyfriend but I messed it up due to insecurity and communication issues?

We dated for a month and a half. After about a month he told me that he felt i needed to trust him and not let my insecurities affect our relationship and i took it as him attacking me as a person and gave him the silent...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can a person from a messed up family learn how to have a healthy relationship?

When dating, how can someone be part of a healthy relationship as an adult if they never saw one when they were growing up? Is that something that could even be taught?

Flower7

Master Age: 40

Is 23 too late?

I've never dated before and I'm on the verge of seriously giving up. Once I start my next job I will have close to no time to mess around because I will simultaneously be getting a bunch of certifications. By the time I'm...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it okay to ignore him right now?

My boyfriend of 8 years. many ups and downs. we were getting along, things seemed ok but then they aren't. Theyre worse. I've some mental illness that my dr is trying to narrow down I started antidepressants & apparently...

Alex890

Xper 5 Age: 35

Me (31M) my ex girlfriend (36F) broke up last Friday over a phone call! Need Advice?

Hey everyone, So I am in a bit of a predicament, and I do apologize for spewing this on you guys. So me (31M) was with the ONE... my one the woman someone would search for and never find in a life time! I know...

EscanV

Xper 2 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

I get very uneasy when my boyfriend gets hyper?

I have an irrational fear of being abused, and my bought is very understanding and does not abuse me. I have anxiety and he has done his best to understand but sometimes my mind plays tricks on my and confuses me. My...

Anonymous

(25-29)

We broke up, he went back to his ex, now he’s trying to get me back?

I recently ended things with a guy I was dating for a brief time. I didn’t want to end things as I liked him a lot and he claimed to like me, we got on so well. But lately he had been getting drunk all the time and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He asked me what I wanted and I was too scared to say a relationship, what do u think?

Instead I told him that I wanted someone trustworthy and spontaneous. Someone who allows me to be me but isn’t afraid to let me know when I’ve messed up so that we can grow together is that a good response?

Amanda2

Explorer Age: 35

Single forever? What am I doing wrong?

I`m 35, going to be 36 this year. I had my first serious relationship at around 17. My longest relationship lasted 7 years and we broke up as he didn't want to move out of his parents house (as his age of 31). I did...

Anonymous

(36-45)