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Okay so my ex who was my first boyfriend and sex partner dumped me twice.
He treated me horrible and even gave me an STI.
It's been 2 months since he dumped me and I'm still angry but I realize I deserve way better and I will get someone way better. I'm actually moving to a different state next month. I'm so ready and excited. However, I was talking to a friend last night and his name came up. My friend was still friends with him on fb and found out he deactivated his FB and even his instagram. It shocked us both because he is always on social media and never deactivated it before. I've only known him for 2-3 months but I believe I knew him way more than the people around him. I have a bad feeling and I want to send him some encouraging words. I still love him as a person but definitely no relationship. I really feel something is wrong. Like he's really depressed or suicidal. Should I text him some encouraging words/hope he has a good 2017? People always say I care too much and to leave him alone. He blatantly told me to my face when he broke up with me he did not want me. I also don't want to intrude if he has a new girlfriend or something. I could be wrong on everything but I don't know this isn't normal from him.

Okay so my ex who was my first boyfriend and sex partner dumped me twice.
He treated me horrible and even gave me an STI.
It's been 2 months since he dumped me and I'm still angry but I realize I deserve way better and I will get someone way better. I'm actually moving to a different state next month. I'm so ready and excited. However, I was talking to a friend last night and his name came up. My friend was still friends with him on fb and found out he deactivated his FB and even his instagram. It shocked us both because he is always on social media and never deactivated it before. I've only known him for 2-3 months but I believe I knew him way more than the people around him. I have a bad feeling and I want to send him some encouraging words. I still love him as a person but definitely no relationship. I really feel something is wrong. Like he's really depressed or suicidal. Should I text him some encouraging words/hope he has a good 2017? People always say I care too much and that I will get hurt, but I don't know I like to make sure others are happy. I also don't want to intrude if he has a new girlfriend or something. :/ I could be wrong on everything but I don't know this isn't normal from him.

The funny thing is, he is biracial (white mom, Black dad) and I am Black. He told me that his mom doesn't like me because I'm black and yada yada and I'm Just like... really... My mom says I should dump him. I tried to break up with him earlier but he kept telling me she has to "get used" to me, then he started crying and I felt bad. His dad pulled me aside and told me not to worry about her but I don't know. I take racism VERY seriously, and I am quick to cut tf up at a racist.

I have been friends with this girl for over 3 years now. She has been my rock for many difficult situations I went through in my life. I was a victim of domestic violence and abuse, she helped me stay calm, strong, confident, secure, loved. She is very understanding, open-minded, a great conversationalist, I enjoy spending time with her. She is a great listener, wise beyond her years, even though she is a teenager, like me. I've always heard from others how she talks nothing but the best about me. She knows my soul.

But there are some little things that have always made me question weather she's a true friend or not: 98% of the time I am the one to initiate conversations and textings, 97% of the time I am the one to suggests going out together. The things became worse after she found her first boyfriend (10 months ago). He is friends with an enemy of mine and he hates me. He has been draging her away from me. She spends all the time with him and she barely finds one evening a week to go out with me. I've seen him trying to distract her on the street so that she won't see me and talk to me.

GET THIS:
2 days ago I celebrated my 19th birthday. I am known for throwing the best parties in town. It's been like that since 9th birthday. Wich I just realized is 10 years now. 😀 There is always a lot of people. For some reason (still don't know why), only 3 people showed up now. It was very very bad. She was one of them, there were 2 more girls. The plan was to go to an afterparty out, to a café and the other two arranged plans with their boyfriends. I felt disrespected. But than my BFF said she will go out with her boyfriend, as well. I was in disbelief. She betrayed me. She dumped me on my birthday, and chose HIM! As if he doesn't get enough days to see her. So she abandons me when my party was a total bust, instead of staying till the end and comforting me. No matter how nice she was about it, it didn't help. Is she my friend at all? What should I do? (Explain why)