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This guy and I have been arguing for the past month. It's annoying and I'm just done with it.
Quick Summary:
- We hung out and he told me he really liked me and wanted to get to know me better.
- He disappeared for 3-4 days, I reached out, he still ignored me.
- I confronted him and told him goodbye, he reached back out and told me I was assuming and he's busy.
- We talked, I apologized, he was very angry and defensive, ignored me for 2 weeks, however he was online dating website.
- He contacted me again saying he was thinking and he's sorry for not reaching out when busy. Blamed me again for being irrational and unhealthy when arguing.
- I apologized again and asked him what does he want? Does he want to genuinely get to know me? A friend?
- Thought about it that same night and I already knew the answer and things weren't adding up. I didn't want to deal with him anymore so I told him don't answer and to delete my number.
- He replied saying I was unhealthy and irrational again. That I freak out. That he cares but I have a bad thinking pattern.
- I called him to get this situation cleared. Tired of texting because it's making everything worse. He didn't answer. Says he's working and he is down to talk but not when I'm acting like this. I calmy replied saying to reach out to me when he's ready to TALK OVER THE PHONE, rather than texting.

He has not reached out yet. We don't even live in the same city and this guy keeps trying to string me along. I'm sick of it. I tried leaving twice and he keeps coming back. I'm a pushover. Yeah, my argument skills need approving, but I know he's playing me. I'm standing up for myself. I have a gut feeling so deep and his stories dont match. He says he's crazy busy but he's been online for his dating profile. He is stringing me along. I tried all possible ways to talk about this with him and to see what he wants but he keeps blaming me and saying im unhealthy. What do I do?

I went to meet a guy next state over after texting and facetiming for 1 month. Really cool guy. I went with no expectations. We hung out. He paid for all my food, showed me the city and cooked for me. We even hung out in my hotel room and he didn't try anything. He flirted a little but that's it. He kept saying he wants me to show him around when he comes out to me, he just has to finish his business start up first. He has his own business and its in the developing stages right now. As in he has to build things. He even wanted me to design something for his business. We hung out more and chilled at his home. Again he didn't do anything. So after I leave to go home, he dropped me off and it was silent. I hugged him and left. He texted me he really enjoyed hanging out with me and hopefully soon he will be coming to me because he wants to get to know me better and that he really likes me. I replied saying I would like to get to know him too. However, Monday and Tuesday he's only texted me once a day. Saying he will get back to me- that he's busy working on his business- hope I'm getting some rest after long drive. That he can't wait to see me soon. He also said he will be crazy busy the next two days - and will be driving to the next state on Thursday for work. I told him he can reach out to me whenever or after he comes back from his trip Thursday. He hasn't contacted me since. Usually he sends a goodnight text. People are saying he's stringing me along. People say he likes me. I don't know how to feel because people say you should "always" make time for texting someone, my friend says he has someone on the side. I'm a little hurt because I don't see why he put in this much effort to play someone in another state. (Me) I want to give him the benefit of the doubt because he is such a beatiful person on the inside despite his external traits. He's definitely attractive person as well. I'm just getting filled with doubt, I feel ugly and stupid for even trying.