Search Results: wanting flings

She’s 22 and lives with her aunt. I’m 25 and will be moving about an hour and a half away in two weeks to move back in with my parents. She’s got debt, I Don’t. We both have degrees. I’m moving so I can turn my previous two low paying jobs into hopefully one higher paying job with benefits while saving as much as possible. She’s currently working two jobs. So in short we’re trying hard right now. However, we haven’t started dating. It’s been mostly just hanging out in group settings but I know the only thing stopping us from being together is me. She’s made it more than clear that she wants this and is willing to wait. We’re both in this state of trying to be as honest as possible because we’re both tired of empty flings and things just keep progressing each time we see each other (which I’m pretty sure she’s been asking my best friend to set up opportunities for us since I tend to avoid relationships). She seems like a great decision for me in the long term but the timing is horrible right now. Should I date her?