Search Results: was i too pushy

Why do you ignore a girl?

You like her, she likes you, she is special, you love her... everything seems fine and great but after a while, you ignore her by not reading her messages; She was trying to be not pushy, just like, we will see where is...

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Xper 4 Age: 30

How can I get his attention without being too pushy, annoying or irritating? What makes a guy appreciate the person next to him more?

I am in some kind of relationship with this guy but recently he's been completely ignoring me, making excuses and I'm afraid that I'll lose him if I don't do something soon (I'm a pretty proud person, so I don't text or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Too soon to ask her on a real date?

We both got out of serious relationships a couple weeks ago but have talked about dating between the two of us. She lives an hour away but we talk all day everyday, I would really like to get out of this not dating but...

TeamNiceGuy

Xper 6 Age: 31

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I Want to be...Things I Wanted to Become Growing Up

This take doesn't necessarily have a meaning, I just thought I would do a fun take for a change. Every kid has something they think they'll become when they grow up. I am no different, in my case I had many things. So,...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

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How can I get my boyfriend to spend more time with me?

I'm not sure what to do here. I've been seeing my boyfriend for almost a year. He's 31 and I am 26. Things are going well, but we only typically see each other once a week. I would like to see him more and he has said...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, How do I define the relationship/ ask him what he's looking for?

Ok so I've been dating this guy for a few weeks and I really like him but I'm not sure if we're on the same page and I don't want to ruin things. We've gone out for drinks a couple of times as well as a study date which...

HoneyBunny420

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guys, my date is always ridiculously late and then he yells at me... Why is this?

This guy I'm seeing will tell me that he will pick me up for a date around let's say 5. Well 5 will roll around and then 6 and 7 and he won't show up until 8 or 9. He tells me that he is late because he had "x, y, and z"...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys think they want a girl to approach them but get creeped out when she does?

most guys always say they would love it if a girl approached them first but a lot of times when the girl does make that first move and says hello, she comes off as aggressive or too pushy or desperate. i know what guys...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have really bad trust issues and I feel like I will never have a boyfriend because of it is this normal?

The last person I was serious about played me very badly, (he's my cousins best friend) he knew I have depression and anxiety issues and he "promised" to be there for me no matter what I really cared about him, one time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to weed out the players?

I have been off and on trying OKC as a way to meet someone. Usually if I like someone enough to exchange numbers, once we make the transition from email to text they go all bedroom on me. They start asking flirty things,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

How long should I wait to keep in touch with a guy I liked but I have met almost 3 weeks ago?

I do not want to sound I am desesperate, stalker or pushy cause I dont want to scare him away and guys do not like women like that especially when they are grown up and know what they want. We just had exchanged text...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guys, I need some advice on my relationship/future of my relationship. Some clarity, from a mans point of view. Please help me understand?

My BF & I have been together for 9 years (we are both 28) & we live together (6 yrs). We have been through a lot (family issues, moving 4 hours from our hometown to further pursue our careers, him going to back to college...

princesspeachchi

Xper 4 Age: 39

Guys, 30 and confused. Worth saving?

Hello Dated a guy month before sleeping with him. I am not experienced, second guy ever and first time in years. He noticed and commented that made him like me more and wanted to be my boyfriend. I had next day birth...

PRnewbie

Xper 5 Age: 41

Girl's Behavior

How would you react?

So, there is a girl working in a newspaper shop that I really find attractive, exactly my kind of girl. I hardly ever buy newspapers so I don't visit the shop often, but I always see this girl when I pass by. I'm planning...

Feuris

Xper 5 Age: 42

Is it a bad way to ask a guy out? Does it sound too pushy?

We are really close, we talk every day and really care about each other. We made plans to go to the movies a couple of weekends ago but he kinda blew me off and forgot about it (I think?) Anyway, its his birthday soon and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

How to meet people at college? How did you meet your friends?

So I'm a freshman and I still haven't made any friends at college. I still have my friends from high school but I was hoping on making more friends. I don't live on campus and my friends and family told me that's why I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, she was uplifted, or am I looking too much into it?

Am I looking too much into this? FYI this girl is kinda shy. so this girl told me to read a particular book, and she was quite pushy in telling me too read it. So in the end, I did and told her out of the blue, I had read...

Anonymous

(36-45)