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So my on and off ex girlfriend of 3 years texted me recently saying that she wants to see me after we broke up. We broke up about 2 months ago because she stopped texting me for about a week and she cheated on me. We have both kept in contact now and then, but this only led to arguments, so I stopped replying for a few weeks.

My ex has her fair share of issues, like dealing with addictions, family issues, etc. I've always stood by her side and tried to support her however I could. She has been supportive of me over the years, helping me get through some of my own issues, and she was really sweet and affectionate until recently in our relationship, she suddenly showed no interest in me anymore.

We've broken twice, the first time we broke up, it was because she said I wasn't affectionate or caring, and we argued constantly. As soon as we broke up, she started dating someone else immediately. I was devastated, but I spent a year trying to win her back, and it became obvious that she strung along for a whole year, and when their relationship ended, we got back together.

The second time we broke up was 2 months ago, she was diagnosed with boderline personality disorder (BPD), and I know that a lot of her actions stem from it. She has a lot of self-destructive tendencies, and lately she's making some bad decisions. I've tried putting up with this, and tried to get her help and support her in any way that I can, but she didn't listen until recently, and she promised that she would get help.

Now I'm hesitant to whether I want to get pulled back into this relationship. I'm afraid she will try to string me along again, and I can't shake the feeling that she's just using me. I care so much about her, but I'm afraid that she will just do this again, because this sort of thing has happened more than once. I feel like an idiot for still having feelings for her, but I need to know if there's any chance that she truly cares about me?

Summary:
-Met a girl online 2 weeks ago. We hit it off amazing
-Later on into our "Dating", her severe depression starts acting up, causing her to react extremely strange to little stuff
-She told me she wants to stay single for awhile untill she feels she's stable. She is getting professional help and support
-She is doing much better, and im confused about her interest in me. She doesn't flirt back, but doesn't reject me either. So I decided to ask her whats up, after a good amount of time and progress has been made with her recovery

Me: I'm curious about something. it's been literally a month since I've asked this and you're doing so much better and seem way more stable (cause she said she's not stable for a relationship). You're doing great! I just wanna know how you feel about me and whether you'd like to give dating a shot when you're completely ready. You know i only want you and am literally not attracted to any other girl

Her: …

Me: I have no problem waiting and ill help as much as I can, i'm just asking if you'd like to give things a shot again when you're completely ready. That's all. You're doing so much better so I figured i'd ask

Her: Do you keep forgetting that i'm sick? (alcoholism is a disease after all)

Me: No, but I do know you're doing a lot better and i'd be glad to continue helping you. You've changed drastically within the past 2 weeks and it's amazing honestly

Her: yeah but a relationship could ruin everything im working so hard for right now

Me: I understand. I was just thinking we could date and I could continue to help you. It would be a double win for you. You get help and support from a bf, and love from a bf. Thats just my pov honestly. I'm not going to push you obviously, I just thought dating would be beneficial. I accept you for who you are, so dont think us dating now would inconvenience me

Her: no because it could destroy me

Me: I suppose it could worst case scenario, but i see things positive