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Just curious why people make quite a big deal aboit dating to screen people for relationships, when it seems the best screening is to just be in it and break it off if it doesn’t work. Even asking a person and seeing their reaction is a good screening.

so many peremptory Steis, none of which tell you how the person will be IN. A relationship.

Its not marriage, if it doesn't work you can break up.

So i wonder who would be amenable to just going for it and who would be turned off by the proposition.

Of course many people don’t want a relationship period... OK. I just don’t see the point in dating if you actually want a relationship.. what dies dating teach you about being a girlfriend or bf? What does swimming teach you about waterskiing 🤷‍♀️

I think itd be a lot of fun and very interesting , if everyone who was crushing ( for at least 1 month) just went to their crush and asked them if they wanted to be their girlfriend or boyfriend.

I challenge you 😉

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So, I'm gonna get a bit of hate for this (and that's fine).
Long story short, I cheated on my ex twice.
They were more of affairs I guess, I realized we were different in college and I met someone but we didn't work out. I got back with my ex for a while and the same thing happened again after I moved across the country.

We are good friends and honestly if we hadn't broken up, we would've been dating for 10 years. We met at age 14 and started dating then, broke up at 19, then broke up again at 21.

I honestly don't deserve him or anyone right now, and I am staying single to work on my insecurities and issues.

But I've come back home for the holidays and well, we were spending time together and there was a moment we just looked at each other and then this passionate kiss happened. We were both shaking and really emotional after it happened, then it escalated to a full hookup. There were no "I love yous" exchanged, just fyi.

I've been home for 2 weeks and honestly we're acting like a couple. I don't want to lead myself on so I'm just assuming it's some winter romance or us trying to get "back to normal" (we broke up in October).

He deserves better than me, but to be honest I still have strong feelings for him. I don't know how he feels but he did tell me he didn't love me anymore in October, so I'm trying to protect myself too.

What should I do... talk about it? Let it be?

People tell me it seems like we're meant to be but maybe not right now and that I need to work on me first and get through grad school.

I just want him to be happy... but I don't know if it's selfish to cut it off or if it's more selfish to keep following this path which may or may not end badly...

So let's assume the person you are dating reveals that they have been cheated on by multiple partners in the past. Would you take this as a red flag that they have done something wrong in past relationships or think nothing of it?

Him and I flirted and made out. Said he didn't want a relationship cuz we'd have to be apart for school in a year. I ask to be friends he says ok, and not even two days later flirts with me again, being really caring, using heart emojis, being super sweet and missing me. Boi gets pissed cuz I post a pic of us somewhere, people started sharing our photo and assumed we were dating cuz the caption had a date. (The day I gave him a drawing I used 11 hours to make) I just meant it as a picture and nothing else, but I also told him I do like him, but he said he didn't wanna break my heart and sounded vulnerable, but then I told him I only liked him and wasn't in love with him or anything and he seemed annoyed/ confused, and that's when he started getting really mad and then ignoring me and gave me a sarcastic comments about how I was pressuring him to be in a relationship with me.

All I did was draw him a picture and post it. He is the one who keeps the drawing in his room, showed his friends, walks around the school with me and stops us with his friends and his brother/ his brother's friends. Says he likes things lowkey yet literally everyone sees us together and I haven't seen him walking around like that with any other girls. Tried to avoid me in the hallways at school but 2 days ago I was in my friends car and my friend beside me told me that the guy was on the sidewalk with his friends and that he was looking straight into our car (2 separate times). Now he's trying flirt/hookup with other girls; I've never slept with him. He's listening to 1) Without me -Halsey 2) Now or Never- Halsey ( about not wanting to fight, the person to love you right now) 3) Illenium- Down with me (it's about how a guy is super screwed up and doesn't wanna drag down the people he loves with his mistakes and how they should let go of him and not try to fix him and that he doesn't wanna break their heart) He usually only listens to rap so his music just made a 180 turn. Please explain.