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On one hand he tells me about his life, dreams, saying he wants to take me there to his dream places, telling me he wants to cook with me teaching me how to make that and that, I spend the night don't have sex immediately but talk, joke, sometimes we been out together, talking about what we are, saying he would get jealous if I was with someone , we can talk on the phone long and he says he misses me and he knows I am into him.

On the other hand when he talks about what we are he sounds confused and is like we are seeing each other but no label and we both single. We don't have daily communication and lately I feel it is me initiating more, last night I thought we had plans to meet up but he misunderstood and thought I was at a party and called me 8 am saying he would come when I told him I was home he was just like ok goodnight call you later and he never did and I even texted.

I just had enough. I am tired of thinking about him every damnn minute of the day, getting butterflies when meeting him and falling in love with him if he is not there. So waiting all night (not waiting per se but couldn't sleep thinking about him, and I have a life please big family, friends, school, my hobby that is dance etc) until 5 am I had it and texted him and said something:

I am falling for you, I like you you too much. I can't keep it casual while I am getting feelings. I know you said you want to keep it casual, so I think we should stop seeing each other while we are still good and until you figure out what you want.

Did I make a mistake, I haven't checked my phone since because I am panicking not knowing if I made a mistake, I still want to see him but I can't have a friends with benefits situation while in love with him, also I hope I didn't hurt his feelings, I don't know if he will just say ok cool really cold, be mad and say I am too much and a coward for texting, or call and says these things or want to make it serious to not loose me. Do you think I made a mistake?

As a musician, sometimes I get confused about whether I'm attracted to someone romantically/sexually or if they simply inspire me and/or infatuate me musically. It's hard to explain. It's happened to me many times before and now again: I can't stop thinking about my dance acquaintance.

As a dancer, I like to have a good lead, so it's attractive to me when a guy can lead well. And I like it when they're sexy when they dance. But, I don't know if that's an attraction I have toward the person or toward the art of dancing, or, perhaps, both.

It's not like I only fall for musicians. I've fallen for others with other talents and passions.

I like a guy who has a talent/passion and is good at what he does. So maybe I am really falling for this guy. I don't know.

I don't find him particularly attractive and I honestly don't know much about him except that he's a dancer/dance teacher who's good at leading (in dance).

But when he talks to me he always calls me "senorita" with his latin charms and when he texts me I feel butterflies. I love latin music and dance, so I'm thinking maybe that's the only reason... Maybe...

Last night, he, our dance crew and I attended his goodbye party (he's leaving the US), and I just wanted to dance with him the whole time and would feel jealous when he'd dance with all the other girls there.

He's leaving the country, and I've been really upset about it. At first I truly believed it was just because we have good chemistry when we dance and also because I generally get attached to the people in my life, but after last night I'm not sure if that's all it is...

It doesn't help how he told me I looked "amazing" or "sexy" when I sent him videos of us dancing last night.

Tell me this just seems like a musician thing and nothing real.