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Me and this guy are officially together few days back after 1 month dating
Yesterday night he called me and this was our conversation:
Him - hey babe can i ask you a question?
Me - yeah
Him - is this something you want? Us?
Me - yeah.. I do like you. Why?
Him - I don't know coz it seems like you're not that keen like I am
Me - nah its not like that, its just that I dont wanna rush anything, just take it slow
Him - oh okay yeah I understand
Me - yeah
Him - look, im gonna be really honest, I really like you a lot yeah, you're the nicest and sweetest girl I've ever met, you're cute, you're smart, you know what you want, you're just a lovely girl. So I do want to be with you and I want this to go somewhere
Me - aw okay thats sweet
Him - yeah i mean it though. I take you out every few days because i like you and you're a nice girl. All I want in a relationship is loyalty and honesty. I want a girl thats loyal and upfront. And you seem like that type which I like
Me - yeah I am loyal and upfront. Were you loyal in your past relationships?
Him - yes I was. I have been cheated on before. I can't cheat. Its not me. Im not a scumbag. I know we haven't been dating for long and I know you got trust issues from your past, but just give me a chance. Please dont doubt me.

Does it seem like he's serious about this?
About me? Us?
Or he can just be faking it?

I've been seeing this guy for about 1 month
We have been on several dates now - he takes me out to dinner, movie, bowling, golfing, long drives to see scenic views, etc
He pays for everything we do even if I insist in paying
He seems like a really sweet and nice guy
He text me goodmorning and goodnight everyday
He text me during the day checking up how my day is at work and stuff
He always wants to hold my hand and sometimes he would give me a kiss in public
When I was sick he checked up on me and he offered to bring something if I needed anything

So anyway yesterday night when we were hanging out, I told him that my mum wants me to buy few things at the supermarket
So he took me to the supermarket
But I told him my younger brother is working there
So we got there and he came with me inside the supermarket
I quickly got the things I need and then saw my brother
I went up to my brother to see how he is
I looked at my guy and he was behind me but I didn't introduce him to my brother
He didn't introduce himself to my brother either

My brother came home 1 hour later from his shift
Then he came to my room and this was our conversation:
Him - who was that guy with you?
Me - oh.. he's the new guy im dating
Him - are you serious? He looks like a dick
Me - what? Why u say that? He seems genuine to me
Him - just his vibe I got from him. Im a guy so I know. But whatever, just date whoever you want but if he does something, let me know

Now im rethinking everything!
I usually listen to my brothers for guys advice
Should I believe my younger brother?
I really think that this guy seems genuinely nice but I dont know now

Recently, I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now.
We had 4 great dates so far
He wants to see me often
I am quite attracted to him and he's quite nice and sweet guy
He told me that he wants something serious between us because he likes me
On our 4th date, he asked me to be his girl
But I told him "I like you too but lets not rush it and hangout more"
And he replied "Yea I understand"
But the thing is...
Im still in contact with my ex boyfriend
We broke up 4 months ago and we are still in contact every week
And we hangout nearly every week as well
The guy Im seeing.. doesn't know Im still in contact and hanging out with my ex
He told me about his past relationship:
- broke up 10 months ago
- his ex was clingy
- he's not in contact with her anymore
Do you think he will care if I tell him that im still talking and hangingout with my ex?
Or most guys dont care?

So there's this cute guy I met
The first date he took me to dinner at nice restaurant, movie and then a long drive
The second date he took me to this expensive restaurant in the city and then dessert
he's always wanting to see me often these past 2 weeks but I was too busy
But im 23 and he's 21 so im abit hesitant
I have never dated anyone younger than me and I think guys that are younger than me are mostly immature and inexperienced
But from the way this guy handles himself, he's got a good job already and he's quite mature
After the 2nd date, he dropped me home and kissed me
We made out for 10 mins
And then after that, he messaged me:
Him - thanks for tonight cutie, hope you had fun, you're the cutest girl I've met
Me - aw hope you did too
Him - did you want something serious?
Me - yeah i do if there's a connection
Him - what about us?
Me - i think we should spend more time together, dont u reckon?
Him - yeh i agree. But to be honest, im not gonna sit here and hide it, i really like you. you're nice and easygoing, you seem loyal, and you know where you want in life like I do.
Me - aw thanks yea i like u too , ur a nice guy and im surprised you're actually quite mature for your age
Him - thanks. So let me know if u free this Sunday
Me - yeh ok i will
Him - by the way, you're gorgeous
Me - aw thanks
Is he asking to be in a serious relationship with me?
Is this too fast?
Bad sign?

So there's this cute guy I met
The first date he took me to dinner at nice restaurant, movie and then a long drive
The second date he took me to this expensive restaurant in the city and then dessert
he's always wanting to see me often these past 2 weeks but I was too busy
But im 23 and he's 21 so im abit hesitant
I have never dated anyone younger than me and I think guys that are younger than me are mostly immature and inexperienced
But from the way this guy handles himself, he's got a good job already and he's quite mature
After the 2nd date, he dropped me home and kissed me
We made out for 10 mins
And then after that, he messaged me:
Him - thanks for tonight cutie, hope you had fun, you're the cutest girl I've met😘
Me - aw hope you did too 😊
Him - did you want something serious?
Me - yeah i do if there's a connection
Him - what about us?
Me - i think we should spend more time together, dont u reckon?
Him - yeh i agree. But to be honest, im not gonna sit here and hide it, i really like you. you're nice and easygoing, you seem loyal, and you know where you want in life like I do.
Me - aw thanks yea i like u too , ur a nice guy and im surprised you're actually quite mature for your age
Him - thanks. So let me know if u free this Sunday
Me - yeh ok i will
Him - by the way, you're gorgeous
Me - aw thanks
Is he asking to be in a serious relationship with me?
Is this too fast?
Bad sign?