Search Results: emotionally abusive relationship

Am I in an emotionally abusive relationship?

Background: been with my boyfriend 7 months, he moved in after 2 months- yes it was way too soon. I have a 15 yr old that is with me 99% of the time, he has an 11 yr daughter and 9 yr son. At first he was amazing to me-...

klthornton72

Xper 4 Age: 54

How do I cut this guy out of my life?

Me and this guy had a casual hookup thing going. He wanted to turn it into something more over the summer but I wasn't ready (had recently been in a physically abusive relationship). When I was ready, he got distant and...

kaeches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Should I go out with my ex boyfriend's friend?

So my ex boyfriend (guy 1) was a total emotionally abusive jerk. Wishy washy about if he wanted a relationship with me, and literally treated me like crap. Recently I reconnected with one of his friends. We've been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ended an abusive relationship four years ago now my exs new partner is contacting me?

It has been four years since I ended my relationship with an abusive ex. Literally had to go to court and get a restraining order to get him out of my life. He had broken all my things and emotionally and physically...

Anonymous

(30-35)

boyfriend wants to give me half of his attention? what?

So my boyfriend claims he tries super hard in our "non-committed relationship." He doesn't want to commit, wants to have his cake and eat it too, is sometimes very emotionally abusive and very manipulative. He told me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do? Boyfriend is emotionally & verbally abusive?

My next door neighbor is the ideal man for myself albeit he's nearly twice the age of I. He is everything I seek in a man. I am in a broken relationship and it gets more difficult by the day. The thing I'm dreaded the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have I fallen for an emotionally unavailable girl, or just one that needs to go slow?

My marriage ended 9 months ago, a few weeks back I posted an add, on cl seeking ltr. I was approached by a young woman whom I had the pleasure to meet last week. We have been together nearly every day. Her last...

Louhemp007

Xper 4 Age: 45

I need advice about toxic fiance and her manipulation and narcissism?

My fiancée is very controlling, manipulative, and emotionally abusive. We talked of getting engaged for months before I proposed and she told me she wanted it. I wanted it too because I thought she was the one. She said...

Daniel87

Xper 4 Age: 39

Am I pathetic for this?

I have been dealing with depression for years (I honestly can't remember the last time I felt genuinely happy with myself or my life), but this past year has been my low point. I could right a whole essay about it but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I'm in a pickle and completely clueless on what to do here?

So this is LONG. I love my girlfriend but I am leaving her soon because she treats me like shit and after a year of it I have finally had enough. And my it turns out my friend Elise (who I used to crush on majorly but I...

FistSlaminElite

Xper 7 Age: 26

Do I have his attention?

A guy friend and I both ended two serious long term relationships around the same time 6 months ago. My friend and I have known each other for 12 years. We have always had crushes on each other, but never did anything...

Krissy86

Xper 5 Age: 39

Guy's Behavior

I nearly left due to emotionally abusive behaviour, now he wants to marry me?

We've been together seven years and he became quite controlling after he cheated on me... The past few months there's been more downs than ups where he has said some awful things when I've told him our relationship wasn't...

spicesndsugar

Xper 2 Age: 38

We're all "emotionally abusive" right?

So I gave my bf the silent treatment and he didn't come back with his tail wagging so I hit him up after 3 days of no contact. He said that he doesn't want to continue the relationship because I'm emotionally abuse and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think is going on?

Ok, so I started dating this woman and we REALLY hit it off. So much that we decided to move into a relationship almost immediately (little too early maybe?). We spent this past Christmas weekend (the 26th-30th) together...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

confessions of a good girl turned cheater... do i tell my abusive bf the news or hide and eventually leave him for the guy im seeing now?

I have been dating this guy for a year now. Things weren't always the greatest- he was still seeing his ex and talking to me and I didn't find out until 6 months into the relationship. At this time he was also asking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Survival for the abused woman/man, is it possible?

iv been researching a lot on abusive relationship as I have lots of trouble getting into a new relationship because I still think of my stupid abusive ex but I have moments where I still care It all started years ago and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I discovered my boyfriend is bi sexual how do I go about dumping him?

He's mentally, emotionally and physically abusive. On top of that he's tried hooking up with people behind my back but I'm sure the fucking liar has cheated! I have a shitload of evidence that he's into women and men and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Any other guy, or even girl, who knows/understands how I feel?

I have not had a true relationship before, except for a long-distance relationship that lasted for about 5 months (it started out perfectly but it ended horribly because she was VERY emotionally abusive towards me). I've...

Xelebrum

Yoda Age: 30