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Hi so I've been struggling with an issue I can't quite figure out. I found out when I got back with my ex boyfriend that he had slept with his old ex. On top of that, I learned he hung out with a female friend and that she had flirted with him. Automatically, I panicked thinking she was another girl he had slept with. I asked my boyfriend if I could meet her, and so when he said yes I reached out to her and she didn't reply and told my boyfriend. I let it go, as I realized my behavior was kind of weird even tho I just wanted to know the truth. My boyfriend kept telling me no they didn't do anything over the next few months, and I was still bringing her up and accusing him on and off. One day I talked to him about it and brought her up again. He asked me if I had gone and asked her if they slept together, and I said no and asked him why he said that. He responded by telling me that I had told him I was going to ask her myself in the past, and so he thought I had and also because I had been bringing her up nonstop. He said that nothing happened, that she didn't tell him I said anything, and said that she would say no if I asked her myself if they had sex. Should I believe any of this?

When i was still dating my now ex, this one guy at my club gave me a big hug and kiss on the cheeck, on New Years day. I haven't seen him at the club, prior, nor been to the club since then. This guy is always flirting with my while at the club, or doing band gigs, etc. While at the club, he wasn't drunk, bu we were all pretty high spirited from the show we did. I am single now, and wanting to try to show him I'm interested. I have sent him a friend request and "wayved" on gulp, Facebook. Yes, I know, but hey. He is very flirty to me, even when I was wih my boyfriend at the time. During band jobs, he'd always tease me, or joke around. Which he doesn't with other women of our club. I'm heseitant to get into something with someone so soon, but was that a clear indication? I know he never really liked my boyfriend when we were together, so Im curious now!