Search Results: get told i'm nothing

What do when you’re constantly stuck in life? How to make it work and just settle for whatever you can get?

I've been working relentlessly, to be fit, to finish a massive PhD, to find love, to find a job (in another country but anything at this point). I did everything, i stay up late hours working and get up at dawn. I applied...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Not my boyfriend's type?

I dont like it when my boyfriend constantly tells me actresses are super are hot. The main reason why i find this problematic is because i look nothing like the actresses. They are all white and im half black and half...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Am I overreacting?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Which guy should I chase/which should I say goodbye to?

GUY 1: My boyfriend/I have history with/was my first time/Has never told me he loves me but shows it/selfless/bad at telling me how he feels or what he wants/never says work is tiring or stressful/but strong and kind/no...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

How to get the guy?

I've been hooking up with this guy for months. He's kind of cocky, popular, outgoing, funny, sarcastic, flirty. We're in the same friend group. He chased me for a month and I wasn't interested so I was standoffish, but he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Guys, I hate being on top, is this gonna be a problem?

I feel nothing for some reasion when im on top, this gives me little motivation and i just get tired. I don't wanna be lazy. Should i tell the guy, should I fake the pleasure and make it a workout. Can I just suck his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Coworker refuses to talk to me?

Hello - A co-worker and i have been very close friends since we started working and we recently went on a work trip together with the CEO. she is his assistant and i work in these events. The entire trip we were fine...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What do you think about relationship ultimatums?

So I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 years, we had our immature fights and all. He was nice when I know him but recently he throw an ultimatum. I woke up an hour late than I said (not a promise tho), He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is it normal to feel pressured to be in a relationship just because my ex is in one?

Technically, my ex has been in about 5 different relationships since we broke up and I've been in none (chose to be single- my ultimate crush asked me out i said no i dont know why something is wrong with me). Anyway its...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Guy poured his heart out but what now?

So i have a friend i consider one of my best friends and lately he seems to have been avoiding me. Managed to go out with him on Saturday and asked him why. In his drunken state he absolutely poured his heart out and said...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Religion & Spirituality

BTS ARMY are you out there? I seek to learn from you?

I need your help army, even though im my age at ten a. m Friday morning i used my spider senses and told my daughter the view target would reach 78 million, she followed it and soldiered like the rest of you upto around...

SaskiaBlueRaySoul

Xper 6 Age: 45

Family & Friends

Do you have to tell everything to your friends?

okay, the problem is sometimes i like to spend time on my own, enjoying my own company. i want some private zone. but my friends usually tell me everything about their lives, which i don't want to do. for example, i have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Lost, stay or leave?

So the other day, me and my s/o got into an heated argument. When I get mad because he's mad it makes the situation worse. I always need to get my point accross when I feel wronged. Well in the midst of this argument my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Am I too late to patch things up with my mother? I think she hates me?

My mother has recently told me about me not opening up to her. She says that she has tried before to get me to talk to her, begged even, but i always just said "it's nothing". She is a single mom and I feel like a...

Dolphinne

Xper 4 Age: 26

Relationships

How do I advance from a friends with benefits relationship?

in advance sorry for wall of text im not good at explaining things shortly So for some background, i had a thing for this boy who is my neighbour and we have been good friends before but that was everything and one...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Is it fair of a guy to stay with a woman if she wants marriage in her future and he does not?

After three years together, my boyfriend told me he doesn't plan on ever getting married. I have tried in the past to bring up the topic of marriage to him in the past to see what his feelings are towards it, but he's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

He finds me attractive, but why hasn’t he approached me yet?

First of all im an introvert im bad at talking to people first so me approaching him isn't on my to do list. Secondly i could never have the guts saying “he finds me attractive” based on nothing, but he told a mutual...

iiiisabel

Xper 2 Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex acting this way?

So we broke up back in October and he did over text. Things didn't end well and two months later he apologized for breaking up with me in a text and we talked things out. A few days later, we both got invited to a wedding...

Julianag95

Xper 4 Age: 31

Relationships

Is this how relationships suppose to be?

I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 5years, but for 3 years of the relationship my boyfriend did not want me he use to emotionally abuse me mentally he talk a lot of bullshit about me to his friends and family and...

Bless_one22

Xper 4 Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

How do I get over a breakup?

my boyfriend just broke up with me, i thought everything was going good and out of nowhere he sends me this big ass paragraph about how i make him happy but that we’re just not working out etc. this came as a big shock to...

Anonymous

(25-29)