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Over the past few years, things have been on and off with this Mormon girl I met when I was just out of high school.
We'd date for a while, and separate because of the religious beliefs, then after a while, we'd get back together again.
The last time we were together was in 2016. We went from a rocky relationship to a very aggressive breakup with a lot of animosity, to an extremely loving and happy relationship.
She said she wanted to marry me, that I had become her best friend, her home, and felt our relationship could last forever.
She did leave for her mission, and she pushed me away and eventually stopped talking to me. When she came back, I eventually ran into her and she expressed she wasn't truly happy in the relationship, and she said all these things but they felt like lies.
After a few weeks, I felt fine and I started moving on. But after a few months, she started showing up on my social media. For a bit I thought she may reach out. But she didn't.
Now, almost a month ago, I happened to run into her again. I was at an event, and I felt like I was being watched. When I looked over, it was her. And she gave me a different look. It felt like regret and she missed me. My friend dubbed it 'i miss you eyes'
But like I said it's been a month.
If see saw me and felt anything and felt that way, wouldn't she have reached out by now?

My ex dated me and another guy casually while we all worked together. I gave up on her because I didn't want to compete for her. Especially since we all worked together.
She didn't see any issues with that.
She decided she wanted to be with me, but broke up with me not long after because I wasn't the same religion.
We came in contact a few times, but she always took her frustration out on me. But she reached out to me 2 years after our breakup, and said she had a feeling to get a hold of me. She kept saying she was wanting to maintain our friendship, but also that she still had deep feelings for me. But because of the religious stuff, I knew we couldn't be together, so I told her goodbye and I had been in love with her, but she didn't let me go.
She shared how conflicted she was, but later told me she loved me. We made it work, I guess.
But she left on her mission, and pushed me away and didn't care about how I felt, and said it was her duty to the Lord.
She cancelled our arrangements and broke up with me. I then tried to fix things months later, and sent her a heartfelt email trying to fix things. All she cared about at that point was converting me.
She then ignored me for the rest of her mission. Then when I ran into her she blamed the whole relationship failure on me. But she still follows and asks about me to my friends and social media.
Would you care how much you hurt someone by doing all this? She hurt me so much and didn't seem to care.