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So there's this guy and he gets on my nerves. Sometimes he'll talk to me and other days he'll ignore me and act "too good" for me. For example, sometimes he'll come up to me in the halls and randomly start talking to me. The other day, I passed him in the halls and his friend said hi to me, and when I turned around and said hey back, his face was so cold and he was ignoring. It's driving me insane! He's really cocky about himself and he likes to flirt around with girls ALL the time. He is focusing on school and sports at the moment. I just don't know why sometimes I'm invisible to him, anyone know what's up?

or that you should gave warned them?

the guy i'm in love with has gone home for the summer , and i'm leaving in a few days for a road trip. he will be back next year but I don't know if ill be here next year and there are things i didn't tell him that i want to explain in case i never see him again. i was not able to tell him how i feel and some other things happened that left things in an awkward place.

his town is on my route i'm going to see him tomorrow its a 3 hour trip. so i'm going to stop off and stay over night at a hotel. he'll have 24 hours to decide if he wants to talk. if he won't talk to me ill give him a letter and hope he reads it. then ill know ill have done what i can.

thing is, I don't want to phone him bc he does not have a cell phone and I don't want to lose my nerve or have to keep asking for things. ask to talk if he doesn't answer. ask when hell be back if he's not home,. or decide if i offer my number , ask if hell meet if he does answer , ask where when etc. too many obstacles & I don't know his family, so id rather just politely stop by. if he doesn't want to talk, ill leave. but i feel like phoning just makes everything more annoying.

it will be very difficult for me to explain myself. its not something i really ever do. as a result, i can not be absolutely sure i do not want to call bc i know he WILL react badly and then i have an excuse to not go through with it...

HOWEVER, if he reacts badly i may regret not phoning first. Do you think it's reasonable to stop by? That it is unreasonable if he reacts badly when someone you supposedly have feelings for and may never see again has traveled 3 hours to see you? Or do you think it'd mean i should've called first?

incidentally i've had guys sho up randomly at my door on travels and it didn't bother me. but he's an odd one. he likes to act like nothing is a big deal burt everything seems to be. which is also why I don't know if calling would even be good for him. he'd have more time to worry.

I met this guy through an app on Kik called "Match&Chat" and I still remember the day as if it was yesterday, November 15, 2015. Since that day we started talking everyday, on the phone, on Skype, through kik, snapchat and it feels amazing to finally be able to talk to someone who accepts me however like they say be careful who you met online but talking to him I feel important. Then one day I finally catch myself saying "I really like him" that's when I got nerves and scared about falling for him since my past relationships have failed, however I took a leap of faith and I went with my heart, and last month was our 1 year anniversary here's the thing, he lives 5 hours and 23 minutes away from me, we have a 3 year age gap, we've talked about feelings, wanting to be together, buying a house, being there mentally, socially, and physically there for each other. If he's say "I want you in my life, your mine, I love you, I do see a future with you" and I say the same thing, does that mean I'm I've been in a long distance relationship not knowing? *twist; he's hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend or do you want to be in a relationship with me question yet*