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I have been dating this guy for about 10 months, everything was going smoothly. We had two holiday together, I met all his family and we are planning to meet my family oversea next year. We met through an on line dating site and I have put on the online profile as 4 years younger than my real age. However, I only just confessed to him 2 weeks ago and he was shocked and lost for words. I have apologied countless times and explained I did it out of my own insecruity and not to hurt him.

He had a few bad relationship before and all his previous partner has lied to him, so I guess I had hit the raw nerve. At moment, he said he does not know whether he wants to continue our relationship or not. He does not seem to want to discuss or talk about it and I am lost and confused. I really like him and will like to get some advice as how shall I do to get him to talk to me/ decide what he wants to do - continueing and work on the problem or to finish it. Please help!

i met him by online dating, we talked online for three months, both wanted marriage, he said if everything worked out, he wanted things to go faster. he came to see me during the holiday, we spent ten days together all day and night. and when he went back, two weeks later, he broke up with me, because he thought he would miss more, but he didn't, he did like me, but not enough to marry, he wanted to meet new guys , wanted me to be happy. he was polite, didn't want to hurt me, but i couldnt accept it, the next day , we talked again, he said it didn't mean there was definitely no chance at all. he would give it a few weeks to go. we set up a time to talk the next day, i listened to some friends advice , sent him a message telling him my feelings for him that i love him so much. when he saw the message, he was so happy, he wanted to talk, but i didn't wait for him, i was scared that he would say no again. the next day i sent him messages , wanted to talk but he didn't reply, the next day he replied, said he was sick. i sent some messages to comfort him, then the next day he replied, much better, i just sent one message, then left. because my friends told me if he wanted me back, he would contact me. but he didn't. three days later, i contacted him again, but no reply till now. it is about twently days since he said broke up.. i love him so much, he is so nice, i am a shy person , afraid to tell people my feelings. i want him to be back, would things be different if i have waited for him that night? will he be back? please help me out , i love him so much.