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I had been trying to break up with him the grown-up way by having THE TALK but he always found an excuse to avoid it which would have been fine if he had broken up with me or just stopped talking to me, texting me, wanting to hang out, etc.

When I broke it off with him (mid sept) because I couldn't take being dragged along anymore. I told him that although I still had feelings for him, I could take not knowing what would happen of us and that if ended up knowing what he wanted to reach out to me.

Anyways, right now we are part of the same swimming club. For one, I have stayed away from his side of the pool and he could have easily done the same thing but instead he is literally 80% of the time up in my grill. Matter of fact, he is often chatting up my lane mates.

I don't hate him, in fact I still have feelings for him but why is he still all up in my face. Especially if for one, my only request to him was to not be in my face for the next few months so that I could move on.

Hey guys... I know this is quite full on but I can't talk to my friends about this and I need insight.
I have been married for 3 years and been with my husband since I was 15 (now 30).
He is a pretty big pot head and it causes a lot of problems in our relationship. He goes mental when he doesn't have it and it quite often scares me.. he always says he'll stop but I think that's just something he tells me when I'm not talking to him so I'll get over it. I never nag but I often tell him I just want to run away and not have to deal with this. Im highly sexual and it affects me so bad. He gets stoned and falls asleep every night and I end up having to satisfy myself all the time. I work with a lot of males and I'm attracted to one in particular and we've started chatting on Facebook and I know this is evil but I hid most evidence of me being married before I accepted his friend request. I don't think I'd cheat but I'm craving the attention! Im a good looking girl with a really laid back attitude and I feel my husband doesn't appreciate at all what he has.. should I stay or just be over and out?