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Kai is 25 years old. His ex-girlfriend Luna is 23. Luna broke up with Kai due to Kai sexual assaulting her, and his questionable relationship with his younger sister. (sharing bed with her, sharing a journal with her)
Do you think this is rape?
Is this guy an abusive boyfriend?
At this time, Kai lost his job due to sharing personal account details to other people. Kai tried to kill himself, but Luna stopped him. She ends up falling off of the balcony upstairs and falling into a coma. At the hospital, Luna's father Quan grabbed Kai, punched him in the nose, slapped him, threw him at the wall and called him a long list of nasty words. Kai held his nose as blood fell down his face. Quan screamed at him to speak, he grabbed for his notebook, Quan picked it up and threw it. He kicked Kai in the stomach and screamed at him its all his fault if she dies and what a selfish person he is.

Kai is a 26 year old virgin. His girlfriend Luna is 23 years old and his very first girlfriend. For the first 7 months they were dating, Kai pays for all the dates, cooks for Luna, even bathed with her several times but they never had s@x because Kai wasn't interested. One day while Luna was hugging him, Kai felt very aroused by Luna for the very first time. He grabbed her, took her upstairs, threw her on the bed, closed the door and jumped on top of her. Luna told Kai to stop, but Kai bit her neck and started to hyperventilate. He got off after she screamed a second time. Kai was very ashamed of himself and didn't understand why he bit her in the first place.

Is Kai an abusive boyfriend?

Not replace but simply fill that void.
My older brother is a jerk and has always been abusive, he makes me feel like shit and hate myself. I always wondered if the love of another guy could make me forget that pain, or if that will hurt forever.

My boyfriend and I have been having serious problems. We’ve gone through a lot, and a lot of shite has happened. I’m horrible at communicating and it’s taken me a long time to realize this.. to accept this fact about me. My boyfriend is so in touch with his feelings—he has told me that he used to be able to “read my mind” and honestly he probably did... it was the only time I really talked. Then his dad died... they had a super complicated relationship and I knew I should have been strong for him but I wasn’t. I’m not it happened 6 months ago. We’ve continued to have problems. Then about a month (3 weeks?) he crossed a line. He said I invaded his space, but he came at me. His hand around my throat just for a second or less. I don’t remember I just remember the look in his eyes and I thought he could kill me if he wanted to. We’ve tried to work on it... work on our problems before but it always comes back to the choking and I ask myself can I trust him? I don’t think he will ever do it again... but I don’t know for certain. What if I get in his space again? His dad was emotionally abusive to him—what if he does something to our future kids.

I kind of broke up with him last night, but we stayed and talked and he was downright sarcastic and mean and I just let him say everything. He is my first boyfriend. He told me I was bailing, that I wasn’t trying to work anything out, that I was weak... that I was all these hurtful things. Then I don’t know what happened. We decided a decision could not be made until the next morning and then it’s come to tonight. I keep asking myself—what to do? I know it is my decision but I have no idea where to start.