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Don’t confuse good boy with doormat or the stereotypical “nice guy”.

I don’t drink or smoke. I won’t call a girl “my bitch” and I’m not “hard”. I’m a hardworking man, finishing up school to become a news reporter. Working on buying my first home, published two books, workout 4-6 times a week and I would consider myself pretty successful for my age. I try to travel to different countries yearly, I’m very adventurous and ambitious. I’m not OVERLy macho. I’m aggressive and loud when I need to be like in bed or when I’m standing up for myself. I know how to have fun I just don’t drink, smoke or do things that can end me up in prison. Anything else is fair game like parties, trips, etc.

I’m in my mid-20s. My age on here isn’t accurate. It’s like that because my birth year on Facebook is off by 100+ years because I don’t tell people my age. Leaves a little mystery.

I’m pretty level headed and treat everyone with respect until they’ve lost it. But I don’t take anyone’s bs and don’t let people walk over me, love interests included. I’ve never had problems getting dates but I usually end up with “goodie goodies.” Girls who are “too nice” don’t know how to let their hair down and have fun. I’ve been wanting to change it up.

Lately I’ve found myself drawn to girls with a little sass and edge. Not anyone who’d get me in trouble but those girls who know they’ve got it going on, know how to have fun but still have their shit together. I’m wondering if girls like that would go for guys like me, like opposites attracting. Is it worth the trouble to find out?

Most people I know have told me that I'm too much of a nice guy, in the sense that I'm too innocent and too good, which make me quite dumb actually cause I feel I don't attract women because of this... do women really prefer "bad guys"? How can I stop being just a good friend and start being a desirable man?

It was our 1 month officially being together and i was going to give her air pods with an engraving of “happy 1 month ILY”. for when we were going to go on a trip because she always wanted air pods, but unfortunately she broke up with me, because her parents are going through a divorce, and she’s attached to things she needs to work on alone, and needs time to find herself, she doesn’t want me to be there because she knows things around her are toxic and she didn’t want our relationship to become toxic either because of her environment and didn’t want us to apply what we would see that’s going around she needs a little time. we talked faced to face and she made it clear that “she still loves me, and that i’m the only guy she is attracted to and we could still do couple things, because if she didn’t like me not we wouldn’t be still talking today”. we still talk to this day, we only hang out sometimes, we still hug and lip kiss when we are with each other.

i was planning on taking her to a art museum and giving it to her, i don’t want her to feel bad for breaking up with me because i understand why she did it and it’s neither of our fault, don’t wanna feel like i’m pressuring her for the title while she’s healing mentally. or it’s just in my way of thinking? i need second opinions please!

so 1) i could use some tips for helping me out with getting back together w her or just helpful tips on how you would approach the situation?

and 2) should i give her the gift or not with our “happy one month” engraving

i’ll leave a poll but i still need advice please!