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Okay, so, a while ago, I fell out with my 'best friend'. We had only been 'best friend's for a couple of years, but it felt like we had known each other forever. It started when her and her boyfriend broke up, and I had just got with a guy in my friendship group (we're still together, in case you're wondering :p). A week after her and her bf broke up, she started to call up my boyfriend once a week, which I thought was okay at first. Then she started calling him every night, and telling him that she fancied him. Naturally, I started to lose trust in her, and I asked my bf not to pick up the phone when she called (I hate it, but I am over-protective).
Two of my other friends decided that we should get a load of people together and go swimming. I didn't particularly want my 'best friend' to come with us, partly because I had lost trust in her, partly because she hated the people who organised it. I then told my boyfriend this, who then told his best friend. He told his best friend not to tell anyone, but he didn't listen, and then told my 'best friend'.
She then texted my boyfriend saying that I'm a control freak, and that I'm a bitch, and then asked him to chose between me and her. He then said me, and she said "f**k you, stay with that control freak if you want to. I don't care anymore. Bye!"
A few months later I tried to apologise to her, but she basically turned around and said that she hated me.

I just wanted to know if I was the one in the wrong here. If I should feel bad.

(I know this is very long, and I apologise for that).

He says he has no commitment issues, but he thinks he wants to be alone forever. He's always had major insecurities and he is a pretty big control freak. He says there is nothing wrong with him, just that he thinks he wants to be alone forever. Doesn't that seem odd for someone that age? To already know that? He said his brother can do the marrying, but he'd prefer to be alone? Unless the right person comes along... He's never had a gf, has slept with 10 people apparently though. I don't think he gets love... or how it works. I don't know. I think I am worried about him, but I can't get him to open up.