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My bestfriend Josh has been in love with me for 1 1/2 yr now. I have two problems here with this though... 1. He dated my girl bestfriend, thats a major girl code rule, they say they don't like each other and never did but you know how girls are when it comes to ex boyfriends. He knows me very well, and has potential to be my bf. 2. This other guy likes me and flirts, and stares all the time. I use to have the biggest crush on him but when he got a gf I had to get over him. The tables have turned and now he's the one that likes me. I'm starting to like him back again. But I've heard things about him that I don't want In a boyfriend, like he is very controlling with his girlfriends.
Who should I give a chance? Help

I have been best friends with this guy for 3 years (all through middle school) and we both had feelings for each other for a while, but we didn't know it. Then he asked me out this past December and we've been dating for 2 months. The problem, is that I have feelings for somebody who also has feelings for me. Supposedly he's a "player" but I really don't think that he is. I feel so happy whenever I'm with him and my current boyfriend has never made me feel this way. Lately my boyfriend has been distant from me (most likely because he knows I like someone else) and he's been snapping at me. I know I was his first girlfriend and he has been so awkward about it this whole time. I felt like we were never actually dating. The point is... It's gonna be hard for me if I have to break up with him because we're best friends, but I feel like I need to tell him how I feel... should I just tell him that I need a break to think things through? I don't want to hurt him. Should I pick my best friend who can be a jerk sometimes but is funny and sweet that I don't really have feelings for anymore? Or a troublemaker, classclown, sweet guy that I'm falling for? I feel that me liking someone else is wrong, but I can't control my feelings. Please help! Thanks so much!

He thinks because he can't touch the diseased ridden whores it's all ok. He thinks it's alright to go because there is a strict no photos policy with the stupid girls. My bf was like "nothing is going to happen baby" fuck that I'm fucking pissed off because I don't think its right for him to go when he has a girlfriend. His friends are now saying I'm controlling and too harsh on my boyfriends life. Whatever

He said this to me
"Youre not allowed to go to the club with your girlfriends because I don't trust the girls or guys around you"
"you're not allowed to speak to your other girl friend because I heard she's a slut"
"You can't wear a bikini on the beach UNLESS your with me"
"You leave my house when I say you can go"
"I'm doing this because I love you I know this is your first relationship let me show you what love means to me"
This is my first relationship ever. It's my first experience with this kind of behaviour
He is the only guy I talk to and I've been with him for 3.5 years