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Met this guy on New Years. Didn’t hangout until the 6th. He took me to a trendy bar our first date. No food, just drinks. This was at 7:30p. Go back to his place and end up hooking up. I know the rules of dating. No hooking up too soon. Well, I did. He was hot and figured if it was a one-nighter, it wouldn’t be a big deal, as he was pretty attractive. Well, since the 6th we’ve hung out 5x. He sees me once a week. We only text when we’re arranging a time to meet and hang. No corresponding in between. I get it. Some people don’t text much. But he’s a millennial. Plus, it’s my understanding that when a guy is into you, he’s going to try and see you more than once a week, or at least text here and there to stoke the flames if he is truly that busy. He hasn’t taken me out on another date since the first time. Last time we hung, he said he wanted to take me to sushi bc I told him it was my favorite. I don’t wanna screw up and miss the red flags here. Im thinking of breaking things off next time we hang. We were suppose to hang Monday, but he cancelled and rescheduled for the following Sunday. Guess I want confrontation if this is the right move to make. I’m use to just “going with the flow” and it doesn’t workout too well for me. I don’t wanna be a booty call, but I probably did that to myself by sleeping with him too soon, but what’s done is done. I don’t text him bc I’m trying to respect him and not come off as some crazy clingy. I’ve attempted texting with a silly meme. He responded quickly, but didn’t continue the conversation. I’m just not use to dating guys my age. Usually way older. So I’m new but wise enough to understand when something is “off”. Is he just busy? Or have a fallen into the “booty call” category for him?