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. we met up on Thursday and quite honestly it was amazing she was everything i could hope for in a person there was constant joking and laughing with general goofing around and pushing eventually we sat down where we talked and held these long gazes after a while she cuddled up to me and we just talked about us and that we wanted this to be serious at the end of all this i gave her a hug and got on the bus home. All was great from this point we planned to meet the next day but postponed it due to weather.
We met for the second time same place on Saturday but she was different i felt no chemistry there was a lingering silence and it felt horrible this seemed like a complete different girl not one i shared all the lovely memories with from the day before i asked her why she was acting different and she said im just not in a good mood. It continued to be quite awkward there was no flirting no chemistry while i forced a smile out of it nor did she try to initiate any physical contact like the time before. near the end of it when we said goodbye there was no hug no lasting eye contact it just felt so horrible
when i got home i apologised to her because i thought i did something wrong but she insists its just a bad mood i ask her if she's still interested and she says yes, later on that night we discuss about a next time and i ask her where she would like to go but then she says
''I don't know maybe we should slow down a bit, like not get into anything before we've seen each other a few more times (; ''
then i ask her to explain her responce
''like after the stuff you said today it makes me wonder if we haven't thought about it enough first''
suddenly her minds changed and she doesn't think we can be in a relationship this quickly
i feel hurt from this and im not sure what to say or think of it could anyone please advice

so from a girls point of view what is she doing ://

Shy girls!!!
This girl knows i like her. Cause i told her. All i get is her being so nervous. I dont m knw is it good or bad.
Basically she is outgng socially sound person. I get in return is a shy and bashful around me. Around others she is damn outgoing and loud. And I get is low voice and answers looking at the floor. She says goodbye to me looking down the floor in a low voice where i only can hear. She sneak peek at me. When i see that she turns away as if nthg hpnd. She flirts with me when we are alone and the next day she is completly ignores me. She sits in next seat evnthough seats before and behind rows and columns are free for occupancy. She takes her cell phone and looks at it. As if she is expecting calls. She looks at me in elevator when she see me seeing her. She looks away. She goes out of the way to avoiding lunch time when i go for lunch. She goes after i come from lunch. She watches in IM and goes to lunch when i login once again she knws when i login and log off. She teases me she calls with nickname. She sometimes lock eyes and i can see jealousy when other gal spk with me laughing. She replies well and advises me and care about my safety and well being like saving money advices to invest. She agrees for grp hangouts and coffee times. She ensures i have food when we all share chips and pizzas and fried rices. She always say have more food. She told me not to fight in tournaments etc... i get a lot of mixed signals. If i have to ask her second time without rejection i need to be certain of it.

So shy madames
Will you go out of the way to avoid being around the guy you like and ignore him if u like him or start develop feelings in return?

I told her i like her... but she seemed not interested but her eyes and body language and the vibe / tension is not like friends. I get signs her feelings changed lately. her eyes sparkle and smile when she sees me in hallway when she dont expect me. when she is among her gal frnz and when she see me enter cafeteria she stops smiling and looking down at food not left or right, She stares at me from far. but when i am near. she treats as i am invisible. she knows if she look at me and smile i would certainly go frwd talk to her evn if she is with her frnz. most times when i greet her. she smiles and look down. i would move on after wishing her hi. when i subtly teased her she asks whats hpnd to u today (with chuckles)? SInce the first time i teased her and made her laugh. She is fucking outgoing and flirty with other buddy frnz both boys and gals. But with me... i only get her shyness and smile not laughning with teeths shown (she was with me before she knew my feelings). She is very picky on words she say to me. i believe she dont want to say or screwup saying smthng bad. she invited me to group lunch and all. Does she like me?