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Let me explain

So my friend looks drop dead gorgeous. I'd say a perfect 10, but well at least around 9.
She has a good personality too, some flaws for sure, but everyone does.
She can be a bit distant sometimes and needs quite a bit of time for herself and she's often brutally honest which I think are both things that are turn offs for guys?
But overall she's kind, polite, funny, loves animals, is into sports, does loads of volunteering work... and I think she would make a good girlfriend.

Just with with men she's having a hard time. 22, never had a boyfriend, still a virgin, not by choice and she's getting really frustrated about it, asking for help.

I don't know why guys don't like her? my first guess would be that they're intimidated?
So how can we make her seem more approachable?

Also she puts a lot of work into her appearance, despite being beautiful anyways. She often wears really nice dresses to college where most people wear sweatpants, so I was wondering if maybe she didn't do that it would help? Maybe come across as less high maintenance or i don't know

Is that a good idea or not at all? It's obviously counter intuitive because most girls will instinctively try to look as good as possible