Search Results: more than friends with benefits

Is Marriage or friends with benefits ideal long-term?

Considering the divorce rates, I wonder if many people in our culture today would prefer a friends with benefits relationship rather than a marriage.

sugarchateau

Yoda Age: 31

Considering the divorce rates, I wonder if many people in our culture today would prefer a friends with benefits relationship rather than a marriage.

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Any way to try and backpaddle?

I've kind of developed an interest in a guy i've been friends with benefits with, but I am not sure I really do like him. I am also pretty sure he doesn't like me as more than we are now. I do want to try to see...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What’s the point of having a boyfriend in highschool?

Like if you genuinely think about it, what are the pros? Also-opinion on dating someone the same age as you but an underclassman? It honestly just seems like more work than benefits, sure it’s companionship but what...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Do guys like being friends with girls?

I don't mean friends with benefits, I mean just friends. I have always "clicked" better with guys and found them much easier to be around than girls. I don't really click at all with very many girls, usually don't share...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think feelings could be involved between us? Should I end things?

I’ve had a friends with benefits for over 3 years now. We used to only get together once or twice a month but now we see each other once or twice a week. I feel like things have been different now. He lights candles when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Why do guys get bored all of a sudden?

Me and this guy were friends with benefits for more than a year.. we were very close friends and very flirty even if we weren’t going to have sex. Almost felt like a loving relationship as we always hung out together.. 😔...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Who's Keeping Us Poor? Part 1

Before we continue, let me preface this by saying that I'm not an economist, sociologist, historian or any professional. I do my best to research properly, but I'm obviously not a scholar. This is just my observation, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Is he wanting more than friends with benefits?

This guy I have been seeing since May 2018 for purely sex has started to change how he acts. We definitely still get together just for sex. But last night he stroked my hair for a long time and told me how beautiful it...

Lizzie85

Xper 5 Age: 40

What are the rules for friends with benefits?

I’ve been in a friends with benefits relationship for the past year and a half. At first, he was pretty clear that no feelings were involved. But recently he told me he loves me and that I was one of his best friends....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does my friends with benefits really want? Does he like me or am I a stand in girlfriend for him until he gets a relationship?

My friends with benefits (male, 29) and I (female, 20) first met in a language club over the summer. It was a small friend group of 6 people and I was the newest addition. After a couple of months of going to the club he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have a 43 yr old friends with benefits.. who has confused me beyond words.. how do I get a better understanding of what to expect from him? Alots of details below?

I'll try to make this long story as short as possible.. feb 2018 I started talking to an older man (43 and I'm 27). I was in an open marriage looking for a friend and he was looking as well so we got together and things...

Brittney012791

Xper 4 Age: 35

Family & Friends

Are we friends or does he was to be more than friends?

My childhood friend & I recently went to a nearby mall & then watched a movie, from there we were supposed to go to our houses but he ended up convincing me to go to Starbucks & try out a new drink. We discussed his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I bring up the subject of making our relationship official?

Me and this guy dated about 6 months ago after being friends for a while, but for a number of reasons (not being ready for commitment, being busy with exams, a lack of communication etc.) the relationship didn’t work out....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Technology & Internet

Growing Up As a Gen Z Person With a Smartphone And Then Without One...

You probably read this title and thought to yourself: "What?! A gen Z person without a phone?!" Yet this is true and to this day, I still don't have a smartphone. I'm not going to lie, I might get one next year because...

MissPeach35

Xper 5 Age: 23

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25M) Girl I love (25F) doesn't love me she love someone else no one cares I'm sad I hate my life no attractive women will date me help please?

The girl I'm in love with who's one of my close friends is getting married to someone else I've had feelings for her since I was 14 years old and I'm 25 now everyone else has been happy for her and no one has cared to...

stevenCOtoMA

Xper 2 Age: 33

Is he worth it?

I was dating this guy about 2 years ago, we broke up because of an age difference. I’m turning 18 in a few months and I’m really hoping we can work things out then (it’ll be easier to hang out etc). I’m in love with this...

xxxtav

Xper 5 Age: 25

Should I breakup with him?

I've been seeing this guy since August. He's been really sweet to me, we have a lot in common and he likes me a lot. I've never had someone be so serious about me. However, my feelings for him are lukewarm. I have a great...

dimitria97

Xper 5 Age: 28

Did I scare him away?

I met this guy about a month ago on Bumble, he was in town visiting family. He’s working on research for a university so he had a long time off. We hung out a couple times a week. I’ve never had a friends with benefits...

Anonymous

(30-35)