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We’ve been dating a couple months, we said we wouldn’t date other people but he wasn’t ready for relationship yet. He was moving it fast first then slowed us down and discussed his career moves, maybe leaving city for couple months soon.

We aren’t 100% stable in understanding our needs with each other, which has put us on pause a lot and arguments. We finally talked it out. He still wants to date but isn’t quite ready to jump into relationship.

We have gone through a lot and shared so many things. We both have our insecurities. I understand that but I also think it’s bad not to risk and be together and it’s also bad to jump into relationship when we’re not emotionally stable with each other.

Should I give it time (and how long) and let us keep dating and see if we can find stability? Let it go? Or give him an ultimatum?

Any advice would help, thanks.

We’ve been a roller coaster of emotions during our 4 months of dating. It’s many disagreements but then we are great, we are good. We have deep conversations, ambition in our careers, have walks by beach, talk about our families and friends... etc. I hate feeling that we can’t make it work.

I’ve been patient, and now I’m loosing patience. He was moving us forward quick then slowed down then back again quick. And now I’m over here ready for us to move forward and he seems to be content in just going with the flow.

I know we have to work on our disagreements first, and we were doing fine but anytime I begin to speak about how I feel or he does, we go rocky road again. I guess we can’t let go either because we have great memories and connection.

Please help...